Nomwero unhu unhu

Kuzvininipisa - kushaya chido nokuda chinokudza. The munhu arege kudzivisa anokudza, asi kuti hapana nzira haatauri pamusoro indiscretion ake. Maria Sklodowska-Curie, wokutanga-peri kaviri-akahwina mubayiro weNobel. Muna 1910, iye akabudirira nevamwe yakachena esimbi Radium. Saka yakapedzwa makore 12 kutenderera nesimba basa upenyu pangozi. Kubva nomwero, haana kunyange patented nemigumisiro pakutsvakurudza ake. Maria akaramba: "Radium haafaniri kuvandudza munhu. chinhu ichi ndohwaJehovha yose. " Panguva First World War Maria akatungamirira radiological basa Red Cross uye ini takaenda Frontline zvipatara. Akadzidza kutyaira motokari, asi akava motokari makanika kana zvakakodzera. In hwake pamwe kushinga rinogara inotonhora attics, ipapo kukodzera nokuda Murabhoritari child aipedza rakaoma kuedza uye panguva World War First, dzayo dzose kudzikama uye kuva nomwero, akava musoja. It akaremekedza pose, asi iye haana aiva nechido kukudzwa nokubwinya.

Zvinoita sokuti chokusazvininipisa, kuti munhu anotsvaka kukudzwa? Akataura nezve pacharo, achiita tsika, ruzha kutaura, pamwe pathos uye kurayira inzwi, zvakajeka akapfeka, kuratidza godo nezvakadaro. Kuzvininipisa sechinhu kuratidzwa kuzvikudza nguva anouya daka nevamwe, uye izvi zvinotungamirira kutambura uye kurwadziwa. Kana munhu haasi kutaura nemwoyo wose, pamwe pathos, vanhu vachiita vachizviziva kana mukusaziva kudzivisa indiscretion ake. Kunowedzera ngozi hondo, uye kuti kurwadziwa uye kutambura. Chokusazvininipisa chimiro anosangana hombe aonekwe nevamwe.

Kusiyana chokusazvininipisa nomwero anogara vachingotya rugare, ine pfungwa dzake dzigadzikane. Chokuyananisira - zviri mupfungwa, kuti ndiye pfungwa kwanyarara munhu haisi inovapo pamusana chimiro chake, iye anogara oga. A mwero murume - kupfuura zvose, kunyarara murume. Kwete akanyarara, asi rikanyarara. Munhu nyarara anogona kuva kure vanozvininipisa: achiri zhinji akadzama.

Dzisina kungwara murume, kunyimwa "zvihwitsi" inokudza, anonzwa godo. Chokusazvininipisa pasina chinokudza grimaces uye rinobva negodo. Kuzvininipisa akadzikama, yokuzvininipisa, nguva dzose achiita basa zvakanaka uye norukudzo uye pasina pavo. Chokusazvininipisa, kana twakawandawanda inorumbidza, ucharizadzisa mabasa avo, uye aisazomboita kuita basa ravo Kuzvipira. Kushaikwa nomwero - hachizi chido kukudza. Chokusazvininipisa hakusi kugadzikana, pasina remuneration, ropafadzo uye anokudza nayo unusable. Nemamwe mashoko, pamwe mwero munhu ane zvakawanda matambudziko: zvikasashanda dzose, kurwisana nevanhu, izvozvo haakudzwi. Kana chikwata yaiva utano hwakanaka, nokuuya chokusazvininipisa zvichava zvinoparadza godo.

Kuzvininipisa - ndiko kunaka munhu, izvo kunooneka pacharo pachinhu pacharo, uye kwete pazvinhu vamwe vanhu. Zvakasiyana kuzvininipisa. Kuzvininipisa kunoreva kukunda pamusoro hasha, munhu anoona mashoko zvose kuuya nokuzvininipisa kutsoropodza kana kurumbidza nayo - achava zvakaenzana nokuzvininipisa sei. Kuzvininipisa - chemhando yepamusoro munhu mutsvene munhu, izvozvo zvaitika zvinoratidza kuvapo nomwero. Kuzvininipisa hazvirevi kuva vanozvininipisa. Kana nomwero kuzvipa mhosva, nokutuka, kuti vaunze "chena kupisa", iye haagoni kumira uye vakadambura nehasha. Iye haana kurumbidza, rukudzo, chipo, asi kana kugumbura chiremera yevanhu, iwewo unogona 'kumira nemakumbo ayo hadzi. " Nemamwe mashoko, kuzvininipisa - ndiko kushaya hasha, uye kuva nomwero - ndiko kushaya chido chinokudza. Kuzvininipisa - chinhu chinodiwa danho kuzvininipisa.

Kuzvininipisa kusiyana chokusazvininipisa anokwanisa kuteerera, kugamuchira zvitsva. Chokusazvininipisa haasi kukwanisa kuteerera. Active achiteerera kunosanganisira kuzvininipisa. Izvi chatingatevedzera munhu wakatarisana yokudada, saka indiscretion havagoni kushanda nokuti. Somuenzaniso, wechiduku dzematunhu akauya Moscow kukunda nyika nesayenzi. chikuru kurudziro yake inova Somuenzaniso, kuwana zvedzidzo okuremekedza uye madhigirii, kubudirira kubudirira zvinhu, nokukudzwa uye nokubwinya. Science kwaari hachisi chinangwa asi nzira vapfume. Angry uye nzara, iye kwazvo gnaws girenayiti nesayenzi. Zvishoma nezvishoma kuunganidza ruzivo, iye "kugadzirisa pasi" - anova mumiriri, saka chiremba sciences. With kuzvikudza muswe wacho kuti anoziva kupfuura vamwe, ari kuwedzera, kusashanda udyire ake. Zvishoma nezvishoma, vanhu chimiro zvikanzwika pfungwa, uye iye anotanga kunzwa anoziva zvose, akangwara zvikuru uye chinokosha. Izvi zvinoreva kuti kuva nomwero wakarasika, kukwanisa kuramba kukura, kuvandudza, kufambira mberi - yave akarasika. Paakanga vanozvininipisa, akakwanisa kuteerera vamwe vanhu, kudzidza kubva kwavari. Panguva iyoyo akanga achifara. Asi nokuda ruzivo yake vaiita evasingatombonamati noudyire, uye kuziva chokwadi aiva kupfuura refu-daro ukama, iye "ndoparadza okisijeni pachayo." Achisiya pamusoro mukwende kare kubudirira, iye harwututumadzwi pamberi vose, kuedza kuratidza kukosha kwayo. Kunyange "musha" wavo, iye kuminyuka akabuda egoism yake. mudzimai ashatirwa anomuudza: "Unogona vanonyepera kuva shasha pamberi vadzidzi, uye mumhuri vazvibate zvoga. Marsh vabvise marara, kusvikira ndakavhura benzi nyamanza. " Nemamwe mashoko, munhu anenge arasika mwero anotambura Fiasco muupenyu.

Muenzaniso nomwero uye panguva iyoyo aiva musayendisiti wechokwadi Maykl Faradey. Haana kutsvaka kana upfumi, kana kukuru asi mabasa ake akanga akasarudzwa ane honorary nhengo munzanga anopfuura makumi manomwe zvesayenzi uye zvikoro. mabasa ake zvave imwe nguva itsva wefizikisi, uye haana kutora bvumidzwa pamusoro kuvamba yavo, kakawanda kuramba mari zvinzvimbo anovimbisa nakisisa zvakaoma kwaari. Akaramba, uye kwamachinda, achiti: ". Mazvita, asi ndinoda kunzi nyore - Maykl Faradey"

Kana pfungwa dzevanhu wakasvibiswa udyire, haagoni pfungwa dzavo uye zivo vamwe vanhu. Sezvo mukuru mukuru K. S. Stanislavsky: "Regai kuzvidavira!" Kana munhu kuzvikudza, haagoni kutsanangurira vanhu. Zvavasinganzwisisi nayo. Ndezvokuti, yakawanda zivo, asi hapana chakanaka ipapo. Kuzvininipisa achizvininipisa, haana kuwedzera chinhu kubva pachako kuti nezvairehwa chokwadi. Kana iye wakaita yesayenzi akawana - zvaizova "rinokosha akawedzera" zvakafanana ruzivo. nomwero, zivo internalized nevanhu, nokuti akachena pfungwa udyire. Kuzvininipisa anokwanisa kutsanangura, nekuti hazvina huta apo vanhu havanzwisisi, uye achiri nokushivirira muchimiro noushamwari kutaura maonero avo.

A musayendisiti wechokwadi mwero uye isina kuzvikudza, iye haafaniri rukudzo nekubwinya. Somuenzaniso, Per Kyuri uye Mariya Kyuri, kana akasvika dzakawanda pamutemo, uye haana kufunga kunakidzwa kubwinya, vanonyatsokurukura kunetseka kuti kupa of State Laboratory yakanonoka gore negore nokuda kwokushayiwa mari uye muboka revatungamiriri. Apo Dean of rorusununguko Natural Sciences, Pierre akati kuti aida nacho kuna Order, musayendisiti akati: "Ndinokubvunzai, kana iwe ndapota kuratidza Minister kuti handina kudikanwa murayiro, asi kutsvaka yezvirwere." Zvino muna 1903 ari Curie akagamuchira kubva Royal Society menduru yegoridhe, ipapo akapa mwanasikana wake muduku sezvo nechitoyi. Masayendisiti kunyange kunge patented nzira yokuwana Radium, muchitenda kuti commercial nzira yakadaro zvakawanikwa zvinopesana mweya nesayenzi.

Mano wokuzvininipisa kuteerera uye kunzwa mumwe munhu, kunokosha zvikuru kuti ukama. Kana vakaroorana vanoteerera nemumwe mafungiro, zvinoreva kuti mhuri iri rakabatana yose, zvino, inobva kuremekedzana. Egoist anoterera munhu, uye hapana anoda kuteerera. Uye zvinokosha sei kuti wezvematongerwo enyika kuteerera zvinofungwa nevamwe, kunzwisisa uye kugamuchira maonero mazano ake.

A bvunzo Kuzvininipisa rumbidzo. Chokusazvininipisa, vakamirira inorumbidza anoparadzira rumbidzo, chiri pamusoro yakatanhamara, bronzoveet maziso. Akanga asingakwanisi kuvanza manzwiro ake kuna rumbidzo, nekuti saizvozvo aida varaidza kuzvikudza kwake. Smoothie nguva dzose achawana pakona mumwoyo chokusazvininipisa. Kuzvininipisa, nekusiyana, haana kuti rumbidzo.

Kana vazhinji Vanyori muupenyu hwavo kwazvo kutsvaka kubwinya, Debussy - pamusoro zvinopesana. Haana muupenyu hwake akanga ari hwavo kubudiswa operas uye vakaramba kukudzwa rakauya kwaari nokunonoka muupenyu. Eya, pamusoro mumhanzi yake, iye aigara akati nokuzvininipisa: "Kana Mwari haana kuda mumhanzi wangu, handidi kunyora ..."

Kuzvininipisa kunopesana nokuzvikudza. Wati wambonzwa ane mwero vanoita kana huma kuzvininipisa? Chokwadika kwete, nekuti vari nematanda maviri akasiyana. Izvi zviviri dzinoumba chikero, "Kuzvininipisa - Chutzpah", umo munhu pane imwe nguva. Munhu paanova mumwe pati akaratidza kuzvininipisa, tinotenda munhu akadaro aizvininipisa. Kuzvininipisa chokwadi kunaka tsvene munhu. An munhuwo - chikamu ane numerator izvo nomwero, uye dhinomineta - the audacity. Anatole France akati, "Mune rimwe anofanira zvinoenderana nechiyero, kunyange nemwero. ' Vanhu vakateerera zano rake, yokuderedza kushoma yacho numerator. By nomwero munhu anoenda kuitira: "Ini dzisina kungwara munhu. pamwe ndiri murume ane mwero. Ini ndiri mwero chaizvo munhu. I, Chokwadi, kupfuura mwero murume. Ini ndiri munhuwo. " Dzhuzeppe Verdi akamboti: "Pandaiva nemakore gumi, ndakafunga mukuru uye akati:" Ndini. " Pandaiva nemakore makumi maviri namashanu, ndakatanga kutaura: ". Ini uye Mozart"
Pandakasvitsa makore makumi mana, Ndikati: "Mozart uye ini". Zvino ndinoti: "Mozart". Ndiyo nzira tinoenda nomwero.

Chokwadi, kwete dzokushamisira kuzvininipisa dzinokwezva njere. Somuenzaniso, mumwe musikana mwero anoda kuroorwa. Hakuzovi kuti zvinhu mapfekero uye manyawi. Iye inoda mutoro murume akachenjera, uyo anoda kuva nemaune kuti kupendwa mudhori, uye mukadzi mwero. Kufanana Kunokwezva kufanana. Huma musikana achava atambudzwe varume vanofarira muviri wake kupfuura zvemukati nyika. Uyo anofarira pfungwa dzake - uyu anonzwisisa murume, uye uya abatwa muviri wake chete - hauzobudisi izvozvo chaiwo tsanangudzo, uye saka zvinonzwisisika. Mutengo kuroorana kwakadaro - Ruble danda riri musika zuva. Kana musikana vakashinga aramba kuteerera (anokudza) kudivi rimwe bonde, kuzvininipisa kana kwete? Kwete Kana iye anofara kutora pfungwa, nomwero, kana kwete? Uyewo, hapana. Kana iye asingadi kuteerera gono anopenya, kuzvininipisa kana kwete? Hongu, kuti kuzvininipisa, zvinoita sokuti mumunhu, kwete kubva kunze. Kuzvininipisa pachayo - icho womukati kuchena uye kukwanisa kuchengeta uye kudzivirira kuchena. Kuzvininipisa - simba kupfuura chombo vakadzi.

Pakati njere uye kuva nomwero pane ukama zvakananga Proportional. Mind murume mwero haina kuremerwa norudado, saka anoona vanovengwa kwokunze nyika pasina rusaruro uye udyire. Chokusazvininipisa ndiyo pfungwa "tsvina". chinzvimbo chimiro Its inoita zivo yechokwadi iri yenhema, omesa kwavo kwakanaka mugove udyire. Mind indiscretion iri mukusaziva, zviri akaisa chose kusvika vachida ane inflated aonekwe.

Kuzvininipisa hakusi kuda kuwana vamwe kwokusakwana. Ichi chinhu chinokosha pfuma uhwu. Kuzvininipisa Ko munhu, vachifunga, "Uyu munhu akanaka." Kana chakaremara pamusoro pechiso, kuzvininipisa inoti: "Hazvina kunaka. Zvinhu zvishoma muupenyu. Kunyange zvakadaro handingahwubvaruri kuzokusiyai nokuti akanaka. " Nei izvi zvichiitika? Kubva chokuti Kuzvininipisa hakusi shanje murume uyu. Unogona shanje nzvimbo mumwe munhu, kuti arege vanondikudza. Shanje kunokonzera vasafara uye hasha pane mumwe munhu, zvichiita hurukuro pamusoro paro nhema. Kana ndine mumwe murume asingaiti kukudza, chokusazvininipisa anotanga mhosva, makuhwa. Anoda vanotya, sezvo haakudzwi. Zvino iye anotanga kutsvaka zvikanganiso mumwe munhu. Muchidimbu, godo - chiratidzo kusava nomwero.

Kuzvininipisa mupenyu maererano nokuchiva kwavo uye zvinogonekwa, hazvina pretentious uye kuzvidzora. Iye chinosemesa kwokunyanyisa, zveupfumi uye ruchiva nezvakwakaipira. Kuzvininipisa, kuenda kuchitoro, kutenga chete zviri kurongwa. Hazvina kuvavhiringidza chero hwezvo. Indiscretion, azere chido, uye ndichaita kutenga zvaunoda uye hamutsvaki. Naizvozvo mwero chokusazvininipisa nokukurumidza kuzadzisa zvinangwa zvemari.

External chinhu zvinoitwa pakutevedzera ane zvemukati chipfuro. How kunzwisisa izvi? Chinangwa mupfungwa ndeyokuda munhu unhu hwakanaka munhu uye ipapo kwokunze zvinangwa zviri chinozoiswa kwaita. Somuenzaniso, murume anoda mudzimai wake nevana airemekedza naye. Uyu chinangwa kwokunze. Kumanikidza kuremekedza pachavo, kupa zvipo, mhosva - zvose izvi akafa-mugumo mugwagwa. In "Evgenii Onegine" babamunini "kuremekedza pachavo kumanikidzwa uye vasingagoni wekuvamba nani." Munguva yedu, aiti, "akapa pomuouki", "The Bucket List", "glued zvimbi" kana "skates vakakanda." Zviri pachena kuti pfungwa iyi hazvirevi inoenderana naye. Kana kuisa mukati chinangwa - kuva mutoro munhu uye achaedza vakananga chinangwa ichi, mugumisiro haangavi kutora nguva. Vakadzi vanoremekedzwa vari romurume. Achiona kuchinja unhu baba murume, hama dzake ichachinja mafungiro vakananga kuti nani.

Kuzvininipisa hazvirevi kukudziridza chido nokukurumidza sezvinobvira kudzidza chimwe chinhu zvinhu munyika. musimboti wayo - dzose nguva. Unpretentiousness mwero zvinoreva pamusoro nokufamba kwenguva. Iye anoziva kuti iye achava pamusoro nguva. "Regai kusvetuka kubva unokutakwairirai ake, saka handidi kusvika chipfuro, ndasvika zvose kuti I vakakodzerwa" - chokwadi nomwero. Ita kwavo basa benign pfungwa basa, uye mugumisiro achauya. Naizvozvo mwero iri kushushikana rugare. Iye anoziva kuti inoda zvimwewo kutenga senzira kupera. Kana vari panguva akasakwanisa kuuya, saka, chinangwa nazvo mumwe. Zvakadzikama muchinzwisisa chokwadi ichi, kuzvininipisa, panguva imwe chete, iye anoziva kuti iye uye mumwe chinangwa, Mwari ane zvimwe zvirongwa naye. Iye anoziva kuti iye ane zvakawanda rombo, hakufaniri kutarisira, chinobva mukati, kwete kunze. Hazvina batanidza kunyanyisa kukosha vanovengwa zvokunze nyika, saka zvinangwa kubatsirwa nokukurumidza uye nyore nyore. Chokusazvininipisa, kuvavarira kuzadzikisa zvido zvavo, vachapedza zvose zvavo huta pfuma, achagamuchira kagumi chemwoyo, nokuparadzwa ukama nevadiwa, asi chinangwa akanga kumbobvira asvika. Makaro anovakurudzira indiscretion: "Chii dzose nguva? Anobatirira nokukurumidza. "

Kuzvininipisa nehanya nevamwe, kuremekedza mumagariro akagamuchira dzemunharaunda tsika uye tsika. Rinopa rusununguko kubva maturo, kunopa mukana wokudzidza kubva vamwe, nemafungiro avo chiremera.

Nokuti murume mwero ichazivikanwa nomumwe zvikuru unhu hwakanaka - hazvisi intrusive munhaurirano. Kana akaona kuti munhu ari kutaura navo, kwete kugutsikana, zvichaita kuedza kutiza kuonana. Kuzvininipisa haakonzeri dambudziko kune vamwe maitiro avo. Kuzvininipisa hakusi kuti kuvhiringidzwa vanodzvinyirirwa uye softness. On mwero "kwete chitima," "regai kugara musoro wake." Kuzvininipisa - ndiko, kupfuura zvose, akakudziridza nepfungwa kuzvikoshesa. Kudzvinyirirwa zvauya kubva kutya kurasikirwa nomurume, basa kuti vamwe kumubata zvakaipa. Kuzvininipisa hazvibviri chinhu tonotora, iye asingadi kugara pamutsipa, ane pachake chinangwa chacho uye kuti rinogona nguva dzose noruremekedzo vanoramba. Iye haana kuita chinhu anoputsa sangano raro kusvikira chinangwa. Kuwana chinangwa nomwero kunoratidza nokuzviremekedza.