Nei vanhu nhema: Kuti Dr. Lightman

Sezvo aifarira vachiti gamba rimwe inonyanya kufarirwa TV dzinotevedzana gumi apfuura, imwe chiremba eccentric Gregory House - "Munhu wose nhema." Ichokwadi ichi? Nhamba dzinoratidza kuti kunyange akatendeseka kwazvo uye akazaruka vanhu nguva nenguva chokwadi kune vamwe. Nei vanhu nhema , uye anomhanyira naye here?

Sei?

Pane zvikonzero zvakati kuti kusunda munhu kunze kumiririra mamiriro chaiwo mune mavara akasiyana zvachose kana kunyange kuvanza zvimwe zvinhu. Kakawanda munhu nhema, kana:

• kutya kugumbura kana kukuvadza munhu, iro aiendeswa ichi kana mamwe mashoko;
• kutya kuti kuchava kutsoropodzwa kana mhosva, haadi kurangwa nokuda chero mhosva yake (sezvinoita mwana, hongu :));
• Rinotsvaka kuratidza pacharo kwakasimba, pane zvechokwadi.

More zvisingawanzoitiki, asiwo chikonzero chingadaro chakaita munhu nhema, angava fungidziro yakanaka uye nekusagona kusiyanisa kufungidzira kubva chokwadi.

How kuziva?

About Kuzivikanwa riri non-kutukana cues (mutauro muviri, nhengo dzomuviri, etc.) zvakanyorwa akati kare zvikuru. Zvisinei, ndoda sei nyaya sei kunzwisisa kuti munhu unoziva, pakutaura kwake. Asi, kunyange kana iwe kuona chero dzisiri nomuromo chiratidzo, nzira munhu anotaura, uchakwanisa kuongorora chero nzira.

1. Bvunza mibvunzo. Sezvo vakawanda kazhinji, vanhu vanorara pfungwa zvavanotaura, asi kwete sei. Saka, zvingangoita kuti munhu akanga, pasina kunzwa, kupindura mubvunzo wenyu namashoko akanga akataurwa iwe masekonzi mashoma apfuura. Somuenzaniso, kana ukabvunza, "Ko kuti iwe akaputsa kombiyuta?" Muchanzwa semhinduro chinhu chakafanana, "Kwete, handina akamedura kombiyuta" - mumwe okutanga zviratidzo kuti pamberi penyu murevi wenhema.

2. Kazhinji nhema vasabatwa rinoitwa pamusoro kumhanya uye intonation kutaura. Murume, uyo akamanikidzwa kuenda kukwira tsanangudzo, uchataura zvishoma zvishoma nezvishoma pane dzose. Kana nguva kukwira aine "umboo", ipapo Ungangove, richava duku nokukurumidza (Chokwadi, unofanira kuva nenguva kutaura ndisati kukanganwa!). Kana munhu avete, unogona kazhinji ichawedzerwa kuti nhoroondo yake yakawanda diki uye sakosha akadzama.

3. kuramba tichishanda Kumbomira mukutaura uye nemitemo yomutauro kururama mitongo, kazhinji anodzokorora - chimwe chiratidzo nhema.

4. Kana vakachinja nyaya, uye interlocutor kunge aishingaira akatsigira izvi zvikuru vagadzikana - saka yekare dingindira yakanga hachifadzi kwaari. Kunenge kuti hauna kunzwa shoko chete rechokwadi kubva kwaari.

5. Edza kubvunza interlocutor kutsanangura zviitiko nekwekupedzesera. Kana munhu ari kutaura chokwadi, zviri nyore kuzviita. Asi anoreva nhema ichatanga kuti vakarasika uye kutya.

panzvimbo imwe epilogue

Tawana zvikonzero nei munhu ari kunyepa, uyewo nzira dzakawanda kuedza nemwoyo interlocutor ake. A guru kuwanda mashoko pamusoro nhema zvose kuonekwa, etc. kunogona kuwanikwa padandemutande - kuedza kutsvaka zvinhu pamusoro yakadaro dzinonakidza nyaya sezvo polygraph nhema.

Zvisinei, kuitira kuti usambofa kuti azive nei murume avete, uye kufunga mabatirwo ichi - edza kuita anogara kuva akatendeseka kwazvo nevamwe. "Sezvo kudanwa, saka ungira" - musakanganwa chokwadi nyore ichi!