Nei murume anoda murume? Munhu wose anogona rudo?

Nei murume anoda murume? mubvunzo uyu zvinogona rephrased. Sei, kana panzvimbo, chii munhu anogamuchira chikafu nezuva? Mhinduro iri nyore - kuti vararame. Nezvokudya anopiwa muviri ose anodiwa kuti upenyu, mavhitaminzi uye kuronda okunze, uye saka simba. Rudo - ndizvo chete simba, zvokudya chete, nezvokudya chete zuva nezuva, asi chete somunhu chitandadzo.

Sei murume rudo?

Mweya mupenyu, anova, anosika, inokura chete nokuda kworudo, sezvinoita maoko edu, makumbo ichifamba, mwoyo anorova, ropa inongogara uchifamba denderedzwa, uye uropi kushanda chete nokuda zvokudya. Hazvina kuoma kufungidzira kuti chii chaizoitika kudai vanhu vanorega nokunwa. Kuneta, urwere, uye - pakupedzisira - kufa nokukurumidza. Uye chii chaizoitika kudai vanhu vanorega munhu rudo?

World mweya uye muviri

Rimwe zuva Mat Tereza akati kuti vanhu vakawanda munyika yedu unonetseka, vari kufa nenzara, asi kunyanya vaya vane mwoyo rinomira nokushayiwa rudo. Zvechokwadi, kubva kusava norudo, kubva kutadza kana nekusagona kuda munhu anouya zvisingadzivisiki nzara, mweya unorwara, zvishoma nezvishoma ndaneta uye kunosiya ino. Vanhu ndinoona nyika sezvaari, achitora vechokwadi chete chii unogona kuona nameso ako, zviri nyore kunzwa, anogona kunzwa kana kunzwa, kuona chokwadi pamusoro ichi vanoti. Zvakanaka, ngavapfige ... The mweya, kutenda, rudo - ichi chinhu kuti risingagoni kutinzwira uye kuti hazvifungiki kuona, asi chiri chinhu kuti, chaizvoizvo, pakutanga, kuti rinorondedzera anosika vakawanda kuti kana chinhu chinobatika chaichoicho. Zvisinei, kunyange vanhu kutenda anonzi chishamiso izvi ...

Uye kamwe zvakare nezverudo ...

Writers, vananyanduri, vazivi, vaimbi, masayendisiti uye chinonyanya dzose zvavo ... All akaudza, vanoti, uye vanotaura pamusoro rudo. Hatigoni kutaura kuti dzimwe kutonga ndezvechokwadi uye vamwe asingafungi. Vose zvinoshamisa, yakadzika, akanaka uye nemamwe kwavowo. Musiyano chete ndechokuti rimwe rombo rakanaka zvokuti inzwiwe mamiriyoni, apo vamwe vaikwanisa kuudza manzwiro avo nevadiwa chete. Zvisinei, kukosha wekutanga kana wechipiri uyu hakuna kuderera. Mumwe ane mweya wayo, ayo rudo, kukwanisa kwayo kuda kwavo, pamwe hapana uye hapana chakafanana manzwiro, zvakaitika, uye nokudaro magumo avo haana nokudzokorora mapatani pamusoro nyore. Kurarama upenyu hwangu, misangano vamwe vanhu, kurasikirwa navo, ndichinzwa kurwadziwa kana rakafuridzirwa mufaro, ticharamba ose chidimbu kwoupenyu nzira kusvikira okupedzisira chaizvo mazuva, kupa tsanangudzo yake yorudo, kunzwisisa kwake sei vanhu vanoda. Uye hazvina basa chikuru kana chiduku chakawanikwa - zvose kune vekupedzisira donhwe ane nomupiro chinokosha ratinoti rusingaperi upenyu ...

androgynous

Yekare muzivi wechiGiriki Plato mu "Wemarudzi" nhaurirano anoudza ngano zvipenyu dzaimbova - androgynous, tichibatanidza vanhurume. Kufanana Titans, izvo vanozvitutumadza dzavo zvakakwana - kusingaenzaniswi simba uye asina kunaka, kuteerera vamwari. Angry vamwari ... Zvino chirango androgynous rakakamurwa sezvikamu zviviri - munhurume nomunhukadzi. Chekai nehafu, havana kuwana zororo, vanogara kugara kunotsvaka mumwe. Rungano, saka zvechokwadi sei munhu anoda munhu. Love - ndiyo tisanzwa chido wholeness. Zvisinei, kunyange pano pane muenzaniso gangaidzo - kuwana mweya naye, isu batanidza mune pedyo kumbundirwa, mweya umwe neumwe, sero dzose kunzwa kubvumirana kubatana, kunyange mumwe kuoma - "mumwe-mumwe-chidimbu-indivisible, nokusingaperi", zvakare tinotsvaka nyonganyonga - kuti kufirwa mumwe, kuti mweya yedu vaderera zvakare kupinda furawa, kurwadziwa, kutambura, vakarasika uye vakaungana itsva rwendo rudo.

Pakutanga sokuti ichi chikara denderedzwa, mapenzi uye tsitsi. Asi shure ngano anroginah. Kuva mumwe, vakawira kupinda kuzvikudza - nokuzvidzora kuyemurwa uye kuzvidzora-mbiri inotungamirira chete kuti kuderera uye kudzikisirana, uye saka kune zvakazara vanorega uye kunyangarika ari chamazuva woupenyu uye kusaverengeka. Paradise harina zvibereko chakunoreva pasina gehena, chakanaka - pasina zvakaipa, upenyu - pasina rufu. Pose paunoenda itsva rwendo rudo, tichaziva chiso idzva, mutemo mutsva rudo, kupa zvakawanda mumwe isingaperi nhamba mhinduro, nei munhu anoda munhu, saka kuudza itsva super-simba simba nokuda neupenyu injini.

Mumwe kunzwa kuti upenyu

Nyika ane siyana ayo, uyewo rudo. Munhu anogona kuda upenyu mumwe murume, pakubva, pakuvazve yoku- mumwe, hurukuro, muchikangamwirana, kurarama pasi chete denga, kana, nekusiyana, zvose hwake ari kure nomumwe nomumwe, uye nokudaro kuuya rudo uye kuwirirana kubudikidza mweya mumwe murume. Mupfungwa dzedu mufananidzo dzakanakira rudo, mumwe mupenyu. We vanorota nezvazvo, tinoedza nokuti, uye kunyange utsinye Vatsoropodzi vanokoshesa mufananidzo uyu wakajeka iri pabutiro remagazini pasi pamutsago, saka kuti hapana munhu akamboona akafunga, uye kunyange akamboda kufunga zvinopfuura chii chaizvoizvo kuitika mupfungwa dzavo. Kupi hatina kuuya pfungwa iyi rudo, ichokwadi kana pakuva - harizivikanwi.

paradhiso Lost

Zvakare - isu tose kuvimbisa kuti yakanaka, kuti kuwana wechipiri hafu, izvo pakutanga watakapiwa vamwari, kuwedzera kamwe zvakare kuva akakwana - anroginom. Mumwe wedu achitenda paMhedziso, pasina mubvunzo, uye mumwe - inopiwa tarisa. Uye, zvichida, swinging nengaidzo mune rimwe divi uye zvadaro mhiri ndizvo zvatinoda - muitiro nokuziva rudo. Handiti, zvakakosha kwete chinangwa chikuru, kwete kamwe vakadengezera, kwete kwekanguva sangano, uye nzira pacharo. Chii chichaitika, munhu pakarepo kutarisana pakona, uyo vachasangana mumwe munhu zvishoma kutora Kutarira vanoita isu pakarepo, uye zvakare kunyatsotarisa pane imwe munhu meso,, isu pozovom tii, asi mumwe pachikumbaridzo havazoregi ... Uye chii muna mugumisiro achauya - ndiwo mhinduro yomubvunzo nei munhu anoda munhu, kuti, chaizvoizvo, pane chinhu chakavanzika zvikuru.

Vanhu vasingazivi sei kuda ...

Kutarisa ichifamba iceberg mugungwa, hazvibviri zvokufungidzira kana kufunga zvaari chaizvo. Muromo iceberg - zvanzi munhu anoratidza kumativi, uye dzimwe nguva kunyange pachake - nokuti zviri nyore kwete kubvunza mibvunzo. Asi chii chaizvoizvo Anovandira pasi rima mvura pamusoro? Soul, kuzvida, kuda vanhu, kutenda, tarenda ... A zvinhu zvakawanda. Usaruyera, regai kuyera, usaswedera kusvika pasi. Mumashoko Mihail Epshteyn, rudo - ndicho chinhu refu yakadai iyo mumwe upenyu zvikuru diki, saka gadzirira kuti chii kupedza nokusingaperi naye. Saka, chero kubvuma kwedu, anokwanisa kana ichi kana kuti munhu kuda kana kwete - chiri fungidziro. Uye kana tikatora sepokutangira pfungwa "mweya" - naMwari zvinoreva munhu, - nokufungidzira zvakadaro pfungwa kwete hazviiti ...

Unoziva sei kuti unoda munhu ...

Fransua Laroshfuko akamboti kuti rudo chete, asi ayo yokunyepedzera - zviuru ... Munyori mukuru French, Chokwadi, ichokwadi, asi panguva imwe chete kwete. Tinomiririra rudo muchimiro chikoro. Pane chikoro chepuraimari, mudiki uye mukuru ... First-graders kudzidza kunyora, kuti ruoko rwake, pendi tumiti, madenderedzwa .... Uyezve - zvakawanda, nhamba, Uyezve, kubvisa, chokuwanziridza matafura, equations, trigonometry. Mumwe Danho idzva mukurovedza hazvibviri pasina yapfuura. Haugoni kusvetukira kubva pakutanga kusvika mugiredhi wechishanu. Kazhinji, zvisinei, chikoro mudzidzi mukuru akatarira shure, rinobvisa vose yapfuura nhanho, zvose wavo kutambura, kurwadziwa, kana kukunda sezvakaita kusetsa, musoro, kunyange benzi. Sezvo akanga asingagoni kugadzirisa muenzaniso "2 + 2", achikanganwa kuti zuva nhasi akauya chete nokuti zvawakakanganisa kare uye zvayakawana.

Izvi zvose zvinoshanda rudo. Munhu wese, mweya yose iri kwayo padanho kukura, panguva nezera ravo ruzivo mune imwe kirasi. Uye ichi haisi nguva dzose pakutsvaga zera. Nokuti mumwe chido inopenya - ichi rudo. Nokuti mumwe - pakunyanya kuda. Chechitatu akagadzirira kubvarura ruva rudo kumucheto rakadzikadzika. A wechina ari kutsvaka zvakajeka uye kudzikama murudo ... Uye mumwe kodzero pavo uye panguva imwe chete hakuna kunaka. Chii kwaunonzwa panguva - ipapo ichokwadi, mumwe mamwe danho kurutivi chokwadi. Saka, zvakakodzera chete kuteerera mwoyo wako uye anomutevera chete. It - mudzidzisi uye mubatsiri. Zvino mubvunzo ndewokuti, unoziva sei kuti unoda munhu, hatichamuzivi akakodzera. Nokubvunza nayo, hatifaniri kutsvaka kunzwisisa pachedu, uye kutya zvinoitwa kurwara-vaiona uye migumisiro yazvo. We kubvunza, ndinogona achawira rudo ... Asi chokwadi, hakuna munhu anogona kuramba rudo kana kwete kuda, uye hapana achange kudzivirira zvinobvira zvikanganiso. Kana paine pfungwa, kunyange saibva, kunyange mano uye njere, saka vari kuti chinhu zvakakodzera uye havatsvaki tsananguro kana kusimbiswa, kunyanya kubva kunze. M. Makloflina mashoko kuti munhu anowira murudo kekutanga, zvinoita sokuti ndiye anoziva pamusoro poupenyu zvose unofanira kuziva - uye zvichida iye akarurama - yakanakisisa uchapupu.

The chakavanzika chikuru

In munyori wokuAmerica Neal Donald Walsh ane nyaya inoshamisa, mufananidzo Little Soul, uyo kamwe akasvika Mwari uye akamukumbira kuti amubatsire kuva chii chaizvo. Mwari akashamiswa chikumbiro chakadaro, nekuti iye achitoziva ayo zvazviri, anoziva pachake kuti chii chaizvoizvo ari. Zvisinei, kuziva uye kunzwa, kunzwa - zviri zvinhu zvachose zvakasiyana. Zvakanaka akati - kuitwa, uye Mwari akamuvigira mumwe chisikwa chake - Friendly Soul. Akabvuma kumubatsira. In yavo inotevera yepasi zimukadzimu Friendly Soul vachiedzesera kuva murombo, kudzikisa vibration wako, achava rinorema uye kuti vamwe inotyisa chinhu, uye ipapo Little Soul aigona kuratidza zvaari yavo, uve munhu akazvarwa pakutanga - kuregerera, rudo rusingaperi nekukugamuchira chiedza. Mweya shoma akashamiswa uye hanya chaizvo zvakazoitika mubatsiri. Asi Friendly Soul akamuvimbisa kuti hapana chakaipa chichaitika. Zvose zvinoitika muupenyu, zvinoitika chete nokuda uye muzita rudo.

Zvose mweya kutamba kutamba kuburikidza pezera uye kuyambuka marefu. Mumwe nomumwe wavo wakanga akatasva bhiza, uye nechepasi, uye kurudyi nekuruboshwe, uye zvakanaka, uye kutsoropodza zvakaipa, atadzirwa uye torturer, uye zvose pane mhinduro imwe chete - vanhu kusangana mumwe, kuratidza pachavo uye kuti muzive rudo. Saka hazvibviri kunzwisisa nei vanhu kudanana, nei isu kufanana vamwe uye hanya nevamwe, nei tinoda kushivirira zvikuru zvinosemesa unhu mumwe munhu, asi haagoni kuregerera akasiyana zvishoma, sei rudo kakawanda kunova rakafanana nerokuti yokudeura kurwisa netariro, zvepfungwa yokutambudzwa uye mwoyo. Asi, tinogona kufungisisa zvimwe mitemo sanyorwa zvakasikwa, edza dawo, kuona zvakavanzwa shure chiso chii chinoumba zvinopesana neizvi divi ... Zvisinei, kuti nesimba, kuedza uye edza - ndizvozvo zvose zvatinokwanisa kuita. zvatinoita zvose kwakundikana. Sei? Hongu, nokuti kubata rwake pasi hatigoni, uye hamutsvaki. Harisi basa redu. Mwari - musiki wezvose. We chete kupa mhenyu, kunzwa, ruzivo, kunzwa, uye azere ...

mhedziso

Ndingadzidzei kutaura zvakawanda? Emily Dickinson, nyanduri American, akabayira shanduro yake "Rudo - ndiye zvose. Uye zvose zvatinoziva nezvazvo ... "Zvakaoma varege kubvumirana, nekuti rekukwazisa zvinoratidzika kwatiri kuti zvose zvidzidzo Apfuura, kuti mitemo vose vakadzidza, uye theorems vari akaratidza, vamwe vasingazivikanwi, asi inopa rinorema-basa simba isu zviitiko itsva, kujairika manzwiro uye manzwiro. Uye isu, ducking musoro wake, aiziva sei guru penyanza uye sokuziva tiri diki uye duku tichienzanisa.