Man-henpecked. Ndiani uyu uye ndezvipi zvikonzero zvekuzvibata?

Zvinonakidza kuti chero mukadzi upi zvake muhucheche hurota hune simba, asingatyi uye ane ushingi uyo achamuperekedza muupenyu hwake hwose hwewanano. Asi sei, apo vasikana vachikura, ivo "varume" avo vane vanhu vakasiyana zvakasiyana nemapfungwa? Tiri kutaura pamusoro peivo vanonzi vanozivikanwa nevanokurudzira, avo vanowanzova vanhu vemifananidzo uye anecdotes. Vane joked mumakambani evarume uye vanoseka mumapoka, uye vakadzi havakwanisi kufanana navo. Zvisinei, rudzi rwakataurwa rwevarume huripo, uye vazhinji vanofarira: hupachike - ndiani? Murume wemukadzi, murume asina tsvina uye asina simba, kana murume anoremekedza uye naizvozvo anoratidza rudo rwake kumukadzi?

Murume-akadzikwa: chii iye?

Varume vevarume vakapatsanurwa muzvikamu zviviri: henpecked nevamwe vose. Ikutanga inosanganisira vose avo, kuburikidza nekunaka kwavo pachavo, vakapa mazano emhuri basa kumudzimai. Varume vakadaro vanoenda kumashure, vakarasika pamusana pemudzimai wavo, uye vanoita semusoro wemhuri uye kumba. Sezvo mutemo, kuparadzirwa kwakadaro kwebasa kunokodzera mativi maviri, uye murume haatombotauri simba. Sei? Kuti tipindure mubvunzo uyu, zvakakosha kuti tinyatsonzwisisa zvisikwa zvehutano hwemunhu akadaro.

Iyo yakabatwa. Ndiani uyu? Uyu murume anoshanda mumhuri anotorwa nemukadzi. Ichokwadi, anotora murume wake, pamusoro pehupenyu hwake. Anotarisirawo bhajeti, nguva yekusununguka nekugoverwa kwemabasa - ndiani, chii uye nguva ipi inofanira kuita mumba. Pasina mvumo yake kana kubvumirwa, murume akadzidzira haagoni kutora danho, haagoni kukwanisa kuita chero rudzi rupi rwechisarudzo. Iye nguva dzose uye mune zvose anoteerera mudzimai wake, anomuteerera uye anomhanyira kwaari paanokumbira pakutanga. Hazvina mhosva kuti hama neshamwari dzakaseka (izvo, nenzira, inenge isingadi kugara neyekudzivirirwa pasi pehupenyu hwemhuri), murume wacho anoenderera mberi kuva "violin yechipiri" mumutambo wemimba.

Murume-akadzikwa: ndiani uyu maererano nemafungiro epfungwa?

Masayendisiti uye nyanzvi mune hukama hwemhuri vanotenda kuti varume-varume vane hanya vanowanzo "kuitika" kune vakadzi vane simba, vane simba uye vane simba. Vakadzi ava vanoona zvakaoma kusarudza mumwe akaenzana naye, uye kwete munhu wose achatsungirira mumwe "varimi" mumba. Zvisinei, kune avo vasingafungi kuti zvinonyadzisa kuva "pasi pechigunwe" chemukadzi ane simba. Sezvo mutemo, ava ndivo varume vakakurira mumhuri dzine mubereki ari oga vasina baba, kana avo vakakurirwa neamai vanodzvinyirira. Iko mumhuri dzakadaro kuti vakomana vane maitiro akakura vanokura. Vanoroora (kunyange zvichange zvakanyanyisa kutaura kuti "kuroora") pamusoro pevakadzi vane simba, zviri pachena kuti havagone kuramba vachiita basa kwete chete nekuda kwehupenyu hwemudzimai wavo, asiwo nokuda kwehupenyu hwavo, kusataura mhuri yacho saizvozvo. Ndiko kuti, hapana mukadzi anogona kugadzira murume akadzidziswa, kana asina kutanga aripo. Pasinei nokupesana kwose, imba dzakadaro dzimwe nguva dzakagara kwenguva refu, kunze kwekuti, chokwadi, mumwe munhu "anokura" kubva paukama hwakadaro uye haadi kuzviedza mune rimwe basa. Podkabluchniki, kana iwe ukatora bhuku rekunyora - rakanyanya, risina simba, rinoyerera nekuyerera uye Yakasikirwa neanoita murume, mune zvose uye nguva dzose inoteerera avo vakaroorana. Muhukama, vanoita basa remwanakomana, uye basa raamai rinowira pane mugove wemukadzi. Havana kuita mabasa avo sevarume, kureva kuti, havakwanisi kupa mhuri zvizere nemari, havaiti zvisarudzo pamusoro pezororo, kugadziriswa kana kutenga zvinhu zvinodhura. Havana kodzero yekupedza nguva neshamwari uye vanofanirwa kutaurira pane zvose zvavanofamba. Uye nguva dzose unofanira kugara kumba kana kuva nemudzimai wako. Saka, yakasimudzwa-ndiani uyu? Izwi iri rinongova nemafungiro asina kunaka here? Kwete, varume ava dzimwe nguva vanotarisira hupenyu: vanobika, vanoshambidza, vakachena, vanotarisa vana, vanoenda kunotenga zvose zvinotenga. Kubvumirana, zviri nyore?