Kukurukurirana pakati pevanhu: mabasa, maitiro uye marudzi

Kukurukurirana pakati pemunhu inzira yekutaura inoita mabasa akawanda:

• Ruzivo-kutaura, kureva, rinoreva kuvapo kwekushandura kwedhaka pakati pevashandi;
• Kudzora-kutaurirana, sekuvandudzwa kwemitemo nemitemo yekuzvibata;
• Anoshusha-kutaura, nekuti anogona kukwanisa kugadzirisa pfungwa.

Mhando dzinotevera dzekukurukurirana kwevamwe vanhu dzakasiyana.

Kutanga, iyo yakasununguka, kana pasina chido chekunzwisisa uye kufunga nezvehupenyu hwemunhu anogadzirisa. Uye iyo inowanzo "masks" yekurwisana, kuve nehanya, kusava nehanya, kuzvininipisa, tsitsi, nezvimwe zvinowanikwa, pamwe chete nekuiswa kwemaitiro, mazwi, chiso chekutaura. Izvi zvichavanza manzwiro echokwadi nemafungiro ako kumudzimai wako.

Chechipiri, kutaurirana kwepakutanga. Nehutsika iyi yehuongorori humwe hunoitwa kubva pakuona kwekudikanwa kana kusina maturo. Kana ivo vachifarira mutauri wekukurukurirana, vanomubata nemoyo wose, zvisinei ivo vanodzokororwa kana kudziviswa.

Chechitatu, inoshanda-inyanzvi yekukurukurirana, iyo inotsigirwa nehutano hwehutano hwevamwe vanobatana (subordinate-boss, mudzidzi-mudzidzisi, mutengi-mutengesi). Mune mhando iyi ye "kushanda" zvakasimba zvinotarisirwa uye maitiro, nzira uye zvigadziro zvekukurukurirana zvinotungamirirwa. Somugumisiro, iyo interlocutor pachake iri munharaunda inobatsira mumashure.

Chechina, kushamwaridzana kwebhizimisi kunoreva kuti zvakakosha kufunga nezveunhu, nguva, unhu uye mafungiro emudzidzisi. Zvido zvebhizimisi zvicharamba zvichitangira, pechipiri - zvingave zvakasiyana-siyana mukuona uye maonero. Pane chinangwa, chinangwa chekuzadzisa chero chibvumirano chekubatsira.

Chechipiri, kutaurirana kwepamweya pakunamata. Kukurukurirana kunoitwa pakati pevanhu vepedyo uye kunopa kukurukurirana pane chero musoro. Vashandi vachakwanise kunzwisisana maererano nekufamba, kutarisa chiso nechiso . Kukurukurirana kwakadaro kunokwanisika, kana vatauriri vanoziva mumwe nomumwe zvakanaka.

Chechitanhatu, rudzi rwekunyika rwekukurukurirana runofanira kusangana nemitemo yakagamuchirwa munharaunda yakapiwa. Mukutaurirana, vanhu, sekutonga, havangatauri zvavanofunga, asi zvinodikanwa mune izvi kana kuti mamiriro ezvinhu. Mhando yekutaurirana inoratidzirwa nehutano hwekuvhara uye kuvapo kwekodhi chaiyo: kungwarira, kutendeseka, kubvumirana, kubvumirwa, kunzwira tsitsi.

Chegumi nechinomwe, kutaurirana kwekunyengedzera kunoenderana nekuwana rubatsiro kubva kumudzidzisi. Mumwe shamwari ane zvinangwa zvakafanana achakwanisa kushandisa maitiro akasiyana-siyana - kunyora pasi, kuratidza mutsa, kutyisidzika, kunyengera, kunyengera.

Muhutano hwemagariro evanhu, mhando dzinotevera dzekukurukurirana kune vamwe dzinozivikanwa:

• Imperative;
• Kushushikana;
• Dialogue.

Kukurukurirana kwekutaurirana kunobatsira munhu ane hutongi, mazano ekufambisa kune mumwe wako kuti atarisire maitiro ake uye kumumanikidza kuita zviito. Ukuru hwekukurukurirana ndeyokuti chinangwa ichi hachisi chenguva dzose. Kuti uite izvi, shandisa mirairo, mirairo, zvinoda uye mitemo.

Kushandiswa inzira yakajairika yekukurukurirana kwevanhu, inosanganisira kuita kuti mutauriri awane zvinangwa zvishoma uye zvinangwa. Asi vanovanza kubva kune mumwe wavo, kana kuti vanotsiviwa nevamwe.

Kukurukurirana kwekukurukurirana kunokubvumira kufungisisa zvirongwa, pamwe nemafungiro emudzidzisi. Inovakirwa pane imwe yemitemo yekubatana. Iro pamusoro pemafungiro epfungwa ekukurukurirana; Kwete-mutengo wemanzwiro emumwe wako seanoenzana, ane kodzero yekufunga uye kusarudza; Kuvapo kweunhu hwekukurukurirana.