Kuvepo kwekusava nemhosva: mitemo nemitemo

Kufungidzirwa kwekusachena mukutongwa kwemhosva kune mhando yehutano hunoenderana nehupi iyo munhu anoita mhosva anotorwa asina mhosva pamusana pokunge asina mhosva kusvikira mhosva yake ichiratidzwa. Izvi zvinogadziriswa chete nekuda kwemutemo wepamutemo, asi kune hurumende kana hupfumi huri kungofungidzira mhosva, kureva kuti, munhu anonzi ane mhosva musipo, uye anofanira kupa uchapupu hwekusava nekubatanidzwa.

Kuona kusina mhosva kunofungidzirwa kuti ndiyo inonyanya kukosha kugadzirisa kuchengetedza kwakasimba kodzero dzevanhu kusinganzwisisiki kutongwa kana kupomerwa. Kuti munhu apomerwe mhosva yekuita mhosva, hazvina kuitika kwete mazwi chete, asi pane humwe uchapupu hwakasimba hunoenderana nechokuita chebumbiro uye hunobvumirwa nemutemo, uye basa rokuratidza kuti mhosva yemunhu inopiwa kuongorora nemamwe masangano enyika.

Chitsauko 49 cheMutemo-soro chinoti chirevo chinotevera: "Ani naani anotongerwa mhosva yakakwana achafungidzirwa asina mhosva kusvikira mhosva yacho yakaratidzwa maererano nemitemo yezvematongerwo enyika uye mutongo wedare wakatanga kushanda." Kuenderera mberi kubva pane zvataurwa pamusoro apa, kufungidzira kwekusachena kwakatenderwa nepamusoro-soro kwechiito chekuita kwenyika, iyo vagari vose nevatongi vanoongorora vanofanira kuchengeta, pasinei nemafungiro avo.

Chinangwa chikuru chekufungidzira ndeyekudzivirira kwekutonga kwezvinhu zvose zvinokonzera kupomerwa uye chero vamwe vanhu vanopesana nemunhu anokanganisa (anopomerwa), iyo inobvumira kutsvakurudza zvakakwana mamiriro ese ezvinhu ezvo, uye inodzivirira kodzero dzeomupomerwa kubva pane mafungiro asina kunaka.

Izvo zvingaita, munenge mamiriro ezvinhu ose, vatori vechikamu muhutano hwemhosva kune rumwe rutivi rwehutongi vanonyatsogutsikana nezvemhosva yevanhu, iyo inoputsa mutsika yekodzero dzevanhu, asi kune rumwe rutivi rweanopomerwa kune mutemo unofunga munhu asina mhosva uye unobvumira vose vanotora muitiro kuti vasasarurire . Uye mushure mokunge mutongi achipinda muhutano hwepamutemo, munhu ane mhosva ane mhaka yezvakaipa uye angave akapiwa chirango chemhosva.

Kuona kusina mhosva kunodzivirira kwete chete kumhosva kusina mvumo kwevashumiri vemutemo, asiwo kubva kune zvavanopomerwa zvemashoko uye mabasa ehurumende akasiyana-siyana. Kurwiswa chero kupi zvayo uye kupomerwa kunogona kuve kunonzi kukanganisa komutemo.

Kana tikarangarira kuvhara kwekusachena muhutano hwepamutemo, ipapo chinonyanya kukosha hachisi kunyanya kusava nemhosva kwemunhu mumaziso emurairo, asi pane zvakakosha zvehupirisiti hwakazvimiririra hwekusachena kwake. Kufunga pamusoro pezvinhu zvose zvekufungidzira, mutongi wepamutemo anonyatsomiririra kuoma kwekuzvitsvakira kutsvaga kutsvaga uchapupu, nokuti munhu asina kumbosangana ne "system", asi anongowanzoziva kubva mumabhuku, angangodaro akavhiringidzika kana kutya, izvo zvinogona kutungamirira kukanganisa nekupomerwa kwevasina mhosva.

Panguva imwecheteyo, mumiririri anosara ane kodzero yehupupuriro hwezvakazvimirira uye kupindira kwake munyaya. Kana akadikanwa, mumiririri / anopomerwa ane kodzero yekuisa mharidzo yake yezvakaitika uye kupa uchapupu hunotsigira.

Kuona kusina mhosva kunobatsira kwete munhu chete anotaridzirwa ane mhosva, asiwo kune vatsva vanoratidza zvitadzo zvakaitwa. Icho chirevo chekufungidzira kunofanira kuteverwa nemupfuridzi, kuwana chokwadi pamusoro penyaya yacho, sezvo kana munhu ane mhosva achionekwa semunhu akanaka uye asina mhosva, saka kushushikana, pamwe nekuregererwa kwepamutemo, kuchava nemafungiro emhosva yepamutemo, yepamutemo uye yepamutemo Uye kukudzwa kweunhu.

Nokudaro, kufungidzira kusina mhosva hakusi kodzero yepamutemo yevanhu vose, asi kudzivirirwa kubva pakukanganisa tsika.