Kukurukura nevabereki pamusoro "mwana wako"

Asati asvika zera vana vatatu dzinopedza nguva yavo pedyo naamai. Vabereki vari mubasa nenguva kurovedza ramangwana munzanga. Kana mwana anoenda kukireshi, kubatsira amai uye vanotiza kuuya vachengeti. In pachikoro anokosha basa reDare vadzidzisi. Kubva yakarurama kusakarongeka pakati mapato zvinoenderana sei munhu paanokura, achaita vamwe. Taura nevabereki - chinokosha yokukurukurirana, izvo zvinotibatsira kuziva matambudziko mumhuri. Pamwechete mudzidzisi kana kwepfungwa, amai uye baba vari kuita zvose nokuda chakaipa kukura mwana.

Kwadzakabva nokuti kukireshi

Kushanyira rimwe kukireshi - itsva uye panzvimbo yakaoma chokutambudzika muupenyu mwana uye vabereki vake. On sei zvakanaka mwana kutora nguva kugadziridzwa, zviri kunobva pakuzadzisa uye kukurukura nevezera. Saka, kukurukura wokutanga nevabereki vake kukireshi inofanira kutariswa kuti remangwana kugadzirira mwana Kuenda Preschool. Vanamuzvinadzidzo uye vanachiremba vanofanira kusangana moms uye vanotiza mishomanana mwana asati atanga kuenda kukireshi.

Pakutanga vadzidzisi vanoenda kukireshi vanofanira kufunga kuti akazvimirira mbudzana. In kuvatarisira mwana anofanira kuenda muhari, kuti kukwanisa kuchengeta chipunu. By makore matatu, kwete vana vose vari kutaura. Asi kuzozadzisa dzinokosha unyanzvi - basa vabereki. Ndokusaka kukurukura nevabereki vake kukireshi inoitwa pachine. Kana mwana haasi kukwanisa kushandisa chimbuzi kana usingagoni kufudza pachake, ngavadzidzise mai vake.

Zvikuru Ndiyewo mupfungwa kugadzirira. Mwana anofanira kuziva izvo sangano achaita kupinda. Vanachiremba angarayira kuzozivisa mwana kuvatarisira pachine. Unogona kuuya nzvimbo iri pre-kuchikoro, imwe nguva yokuva pano vakuru vakomana. Uyewo, vabereki vanofanira kutaura nevana vavo. Moms vanofanira kukuudzai kuti ichavakwa Zuva Revana, kana iye uchatanga kupinda kukireshi. Hazvina zvakafanira kuviga chokwadi kuti mwana achange mumigero nesangano pasina mai.

vabereki zvikanganiso

Vamwe vana vakakurumidza kujairana preschools, vamwe kwegore achichema, kunzwa mashoko okuti "kukireshi". Uye zvose nokuda kana yechipiri, vabereki vanobvuma wandei zvikanganiso ari mwana wacho kwadzakabva kuti upenyu hutsva. Kukurukurirana nevabereki vari kuenda kukireshi umufukidze misoro chokuita kwadzinoita zuva mwana. Kana mwana vajaira kuenda kunorara panguva 23:00 uye muka pa 10:00, zvichaita zvakaoma kuchinja nenzira yakasiyana. At tanga vosimba mwana achava capricious, uye musasa mubindu achapiwa chokuita nekufinhikana ichi. Chinja chimiro ramangwana mboni kuenda kukireshi inodikanwa inoverengeka.

Fast mhosva - mumwe chikanganiso vabereki ano. Moms vanodavira kuti kuita zvakarurama, kana iwe kupa mwana wako mukana hope kwekanguva mangwanani. Zvisinei, mune ruzhinji pre-chikoro zvikoro zvinokosha kusvika pa 9:00 am. Somugumisiro, kuti kurumidzai agadzire mwana. Huta, kwete chete mwana asiwo amai. Panguva iyoyo haina nguva unyoro, ndiko saka zvakakodzera mwana asati pokusiyana vabereki vavo kuti zuva.

Panguva kukurukurirana nevabereki, vanachiremba vanoti zvimwe nguva kupiwa mwana ari mangwanani. Izvi zvinobvumira kuti recharge mabhatiri dzenyu nokuti zuva, sezvo vakawanda mwana namai. Unyoro - chinhu chinokosha pamusoro rinopindirana kukura unhu.

Kushanda zvadzinoshayiwa

Mhuri shoma munzanga, iyo nhengo mukuru nezvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana havagoni kukurira mabasa avo, vanoonekwa kuti kuwana matambudziko. Muzviitiko zvakadaro, kunyanya kukanganisa vana. Kana mwana atanga kupinda kuenda kukireshi, zvinokwanisika kuti nyore kuona pakati vamwe. Vasingaratidziki mwana, ane Ultra-soro kudya, hazvina ushamwari. Kazhinji vana ava nhanho shomanana shure muna kukura, regai kuratidza unyanzvi upenyu, handizivi sei kutaura.

Kune nzira dzakawanda simba pamusoro vanaamai navanababa vasingadi kutsungirira mabasa avo. Basa kwete chete vadzidzisi pre-kuchikoro, asiwo pasocial mabasa anouya. Kukurukura nevabereki dzinoparadzana - imwe nzira inobudirira simba. Pakutanga, nyanzvi kusimudzira tsika mhuri uye kuva nemararamiro ane utano. Iva nechokwadi kuti kuudza vabereki vanotambudzika, chii zvimwe kusaongorora kwagara kukura mwana kungaita. Kana kukurukurirana kwakadaro musapa yakanaka mugumisiro, vanaamai "zvakaipa" uye madzibaba akatumira rokumanikidzirwa kurapwa zvinodhaka uye doro, kana matambudziko akadaro zvivepo. Last pfungwa - the yezve nevabereki kodzero.

Kazhinji pane mamiriro ezvinhu apo vabereki kutungamirira utano hwakanaka, asi havagoni kupa mwana nokuda ezvinhu uye mamiriro ezvinhu emari dzidzo zvizere. Pakutanga, vadzidzisi uye vanachiremba kuti vanoenda kukireshi masangano Zvakakodzera kujekesa nezvenzvimbo iyo kuva mhuri. Talk nevabereki zvinofanira kuitwa nenzira inofadza mhepo. Nzira bedzi mai vangu vaigona kuvimba kwepfungwa. Desperate ezvinhu regai kuitika. Nyanzvi dzinoti sei munhu anogona kuvandudza zvinhu ezvinhu. mutemo Russian anopa rubatsiro kune mari shoma mhuri. Uyezve, vabereki vanogona unozvipiwa neropafadzo.

Mwana anoenda kuchikoro

Kana mwana chinoyambuka mutsetse matanhatu, zvinetso zvitsva. Baby kutanga kugadzirira kuchikoro. Uye pano kukurukura nevabereki zvinokosha zvikuru. The kwepfungwa anoti chii anoti unofanira kuteerera pakutanga. Vanhu vazhinji zvakakanganisika vanotenda kuti asati kuenda mugiredhi rokutanga mwana anofanira kudzidza kunyora uye kuverenga. Kutaura zvazviri, unyanzvi izvi hazvina kukosha. Around vachakwanisa kudzidza kuchikoro. Asi mupfungwa Gadziriro inoita basa rinokosha. Kuuya mugiredhi rokutanga, nembudzana inofanira shingairai, chenjerera. It ane kukosha kuremekedza mudzidzisi. Mwana anoda kuziva kuti kukumbira rubatsiro kana zvichidiwa.

Kazhinji, kukurukura nemunhu muduku boka kukireshi vabereki kunokanganisa chokuita rusununguko. Kuchikoro, mwana anofanira kuziva sei kuenda chimbuzi, apo kugeza maoko avo uye sei kubata chipunu. Zvisinei, kana zvikanganiso zvakaitwa nevabereki kare, mwana haagoni kuva unyanzvi hunokosha uye mugiredhi rokutanga. Kakawanda zvinhu zvakadai zvinoitika kana mwana haana kupinda kuenda kukireshi. Saka, kukurukura nevabereki vomuzana graders ramangwana kunofanira kuchinja zvatinoita rusununguko.

Vavariro Yakafanira chokudzidza - abudirire. Mwana anofanira kufarira kwete chitoyi kana kuenda sekasi, uye vawane inonakidza ruzivo. Kwepfungwa Parent Musangano vanofanira kupindira nyaya chido vana vasati kupinda chikoro. Mazvikokota vachakuudza kuti unofanira kuita amai uye vanababa, saka kuti mwana vachifara akaenda kirasi yokutanga. Uye rakakura basa pano ari reDare gadziriro pre-kuchikoro. Vabereki vanofanira kuwana kubva pachine chinopa purogiramu yokudzidza. The mbudzana vachapiwa wakangosuruvara, arasika kufarira, kana achakwanisa kuita zvinopfuura vaanodzidza navo.

Rubatsiro basa rokuchikoro

Sezvambotaurwa pamusoro, rusununguko - abudirire. Izvi nyanzvi kutaura nevabereki kukireshi uye chepuraimari chikoro. Kana mangwanani kuti kudzidzisa kwako unyanzvi mwana upenyu, zvichava nyore mune ramangwana. Of kukosha kukuru herinoi rekugadzirira yakakodzera rechikoro. Kamukomana chete zuro aiva muduku basa, zvakaoma zvakakwana ajairire nezuva homuweki. Yakarurama maitiro vabereki kukonzera. Motivation kuchaita kuti accustom mwana mabasa matsva.

Vanachiremba vanoti chero mabasa nevana kurarama zviri nani masikati. Naizvozvo, kudzidzisa zvidzidzo hazvifaniri kusiyiwa kwenguva manheru. Uyezve, kana tikaita zvose nenzira yakakodzera nenzira, unogona kuronga kufamba neshamwari dzangu kana kuenda kupaki yokuzvivaraidza. Uyu ndiwo mumwe zvinhu nechido. Usakanganwa pamusoro chiratidzo. Kana ukaita zvakanaka homuweki vachakwanisa kuwana aikosheswa shanu. Uye mukana kumira kunze, kuti zvakanaka vadzidzi vaiva mukirasi.

In kwokutanga nzendo mai kunobatsira mwana kuita homuweki. The mbudzana havagoni kurarama hwavo. Kana ukarega zvinhu kutora nzira yavo, mwana uchatanga kubatwa shure. Somugumisiro, vakawanda akarasika kufarira kudzidza. Taura nevabereki mukirasi yokutanga inofanira kugadzirisa nyaya "sei kudzidzisa zvidzidzo pamwe mwana?". Madzimai nemadzibaba vanofanira kushivirira. Unofanira tipedze maawa mashomanana kuti kudzidza. Itai zvidzidzo vaduku vadzidzi chero zvazvingava hazvibviri!

Kana mwana kuchengeteka

Kazhinji, boka rechitatu vakomana kare ipazwe kuchikoro musi mapoka mubereko. Vadzidzisi vanokwanisa kudoma nyore vatungamiriri kana nekusiyana vana, vasina. Vamwe vana vanogona vasina shamwari, ivo vakasurukirwa uye akavharwa pachavo. Kazhinji vana vakadaro achawira shure muzvidzidzo zvavo. Kujekesa zvinhu, mudzidzisi pakutanga ndakaiswa kukurukura nevabereki vavo. Family - chiyero. Kana pane dambudziko (somuenzaniso, vabereki vakarambana), vachatambura pakutanga mwana.

nounyanzvi mudzidzisi anofanira kuwana kubva vabereki chii anotonga musha midziyo. Mudzidzisi kana kwepfungwa anoudza sei mwana achiita mukati mamasvingo chikoro. Adults anorenda kuwana matambudziko. Kungavawo mamiriro ezvinhu apo imba zvose zvakanaka, asi mukirasi mwana anoramba Akanyatsovharwa. Izvi zvinogona nokuda kukundikana kutora mwana ari chikwata. Zvichida duku vadzidzi vane tsika dzakaipa (makaro, nemanomano, udyire), izvo kumutendera kuti shamwari. Zvinetso zvakadaro dzinewo kurwa, kuwadzana vabereki. In vana, vacheche simba vari moms uye vanotiza. Vakabva achagona tsanangura sei uchifanira kuita.

Taura nevabereki nevana zvakaoma

Mukuru mwana anova, yakawanda matambudziko anogona kuitika mune kurera mwana. Kunyange zuro, chinonhuhwira musikana uta, nhasi - mumwe akafundumwara kuyaruka anoziva zvakawanda mashoko akaipa uye achiramba zvinoenderana zvikumbiro. Nei vana saka zvakabva zvachinja? Vanachiremba vanoti dambudziko chichabatsira kugadzirisa nomumwe kubvunzurudza nevabereki. Kuti tiwane mhinduro, vachafanira kuchera zvakadzika zvakakwana. In pauduku, munhu absorbs takafanana nechipanji, zvakanaka kwete chete asiwo zvakaipa. Kunyange zvazvo kare mhuri aifanira kuenda nenguva yakaoma, zvinokwanisika kuti huchachinja hwomwana maitiro mune ramangwana.

By siyanei muchikwata zvinosanganisira kuyaruka kubva zvadzinoshayiwa. Kakawanda iri vana vane dzidzo vanaamai navanababa haana kubatanidzwa pane zvose. Guys kutsvaka nezvemamwe parutivi, mangwanani kurara nevateereri. Kukurukurirana nevabereki dzinoparadzana panguva imwe chete zvinokosha. Kana nguva haripinduri nezvinetso kuyaruka upenyu vachapiwa hwevanovatadzira. Attention uye rudo - kuti vabereki vanofanira kupa vana vavo. In mirayiridzo iyi, uye yaifanira kukurukura wepfungwa.

Psychology mukuru mudzidzi wokusekondari

Guys vari pachikoro chesekondari - ndiwo vakuru akakuumba unhu. The kukurukurirana vabereki kuyaruka ane nhamba nuances. Sei zvakanaka kuita amai uye baba nezveramangwana mudzidzi chinzvimbo mune muvanhu. Kwepfungwa kukurukura dziitwe pamwe mwana vabereki 'uye mubereki. " Chinhu chinokosha pamusoro ukama nevadzidzi - chivimbo. Kana waita zvakarurama, vakomana vanotaura nevabereki pamusoro vavo mufaro nokukundikana. Moms uye vanababa, akavapindurawo, achakwanisa uwane simba mwanakomana kana mwanasikana mugwara. Saka kukwanisa kudzivisa mwana kuwira kambani zvakaipa, mangwanani pamuviri.

Kukurukurirana nevabereki pachikoro yaifanira nomunhu. At mukuru misangano dzingave dzawirwa rwakafanana dambudziko (waivako, remangwana zviitiko). Kuti agadzirise mumwe nyaya wepfungwa waari gare gare.

Vana chipo zvakakodzerwa kutarisirwa. With vabereki vevana ava uye mudzidzisi anofanira kuchengeta kukurukurirana. Kazhinji moms uye vanotiza hauoni matarenda vana vavo achivatuma kuti kudzidza basa kuti mwana haasi kufarira. Somugumisiro, mukuru vabereki mwoyo, anosuwa mukana kuva mirayiridzo iyi. Moms uye vanababa vanofanira kutora vana vavo vakuru munzanga. Vane kodzero yokusarudza mararamiro avo.

basa nhungamiro

Vanoziva kusarudza basa - kubudirira mune remangwana. Vanachiremba vanodavira kuti munhu kushanda mumunda uri zvikuru. Saka achakwanisa kugamuchira vachiwana mari uye kukura nenyanzvi. Nepo kambani hausi nhengo mukuru, anofanira kutora zvokuita kuti vabereki. Zvinosuruvarisa kazhinji zvinoitika kuti mhamha nababa kuburikidza mwana edza kuziva vavariro dzavo. Vabereki vanoti kuti aifanira kuenda kuchikoro mutemo, mumwe mutori kana chiremba wemazino chete nokuti nomukurumbira. Panyaya iyi, mwana haana kurangarira zvido.

Kana totaura basa mazano, zvikuru ndiye nenguva kukurukurwa vadzidzisi nevabereki chesekondari. Nyanzvi kukurudzira vanaamai navanababa hazvivhiringidzi vana kusarudza zvavanoda. Vabereki vanogona kubatsira zano unobtrusive chete. Uye kuti akakurumidza kuziva vana sangano iri rokudzidzisa runogona rinokosha bvunzo kuti basa kutungamirirwa. Ita izvozvo chinodiwa mugiredhi rechi9, mwana akanga achiri nguva kuita chisarudzo pashure kunyatsofungwa.

To muchidimbu

Okudzivirira kukurukurirana vabereki yaifanira chero zera pamwero. The kunyatsotevera vadzidzisi vachange kushamwaridzana moms uye vanababa, nani kukwanisa kumisa muitiro kudzidzisa vana. Tichironga kukurukurirana, mudzidzisi anofanira kujekesa apo zvichange zvakakunakira kushanyira vabereki vavo sangano edzidzo. A zvinoverengeka nyaya dzinogona paChidzidzo zvayo pamusangano. Asi zvimwe zvinetso zvinogona kugadziriswa chete nomunhu.

Individual nzeve, kukurukurirana nevabereki akatambudzika. vanamai ava uye vanababa kazhinji vachizengurira kunyange kupinda sangano iri rokudzidzisa. Muchiitiko chino, zvaisanganisira vashandi zvemagariro. Kukurukurirana kunogona kuitwa pamba nechisimba. Kana mudzidzisi uye chiremba wepfungwa dzave dzichiitwa kuteerera, pane mubvunzo kuti yezve nevabereki kodzero.