Nei vamwe vanhu vanowa kudanana pedyo nehama?

Kwemazana emakore, nyaya rudo akarara nheyo mabasa makuru ounyanzvi uye mabhuku. Zvisinei, izvi ndizvo zvakaoma zvechokwadi kune nyaya kupenga chido kwehama. Emakunakuna enganonyorwa zvakaoma kumanikidza iwe kutevera zviitiko bleary takangwaririra kubva kuchema. Asi, ivo kutsamwisa uchida kurutsa uye svoto. Chero zvazvingava, akanga akadai maitiro rakauya zhinji, apo-gore 51 okuberekwa Kim West uye nemwanakomana wake ane makore 32 okuberekwa Ben Ford akagoverana nenyika nyaya yake.

rudo nyaya

Zvakatanga gumi apfuura, apo wechiduku Kim akabereka mwanakomana. Zvisinei, mhuri tsika mukadzi disdained ndokusiya mwana vhiki pashure pokuberekwa kwake. Papera makore, munhu mukuru Ben akaita sezvo vazhinji vakagamuchirwa vana uye - akasarudza kuti kuonana mai vake chaivo. Zvadaro chimwe chinhu chakaitika kuti akaita nyika vanodedera vakasema. Amai nemwanakomana kwete chete zvakare, uye ndakasika munhu rudo mubatanidzwa.

Mubvunzurudzo pamwe West vakabvuma kuti okutanga Kufungidzira pabonde pamusoro pachake mwanakomana wake azviratidza kwaari panguva iyoyo kuti Ford akaedza kutsvaka paIndaneti uchapupu kuti haasi oga kugona kuwana kwenyama chido mai vake. Gare gare, vakasangana pahotera, uye kana tsika uye zvetsika zvine kuumbwa vakanga utsinye vakadzima doro, vaiita chete mubhedha.

Saka vakatanga kudanana kuti West arondedzera se "dzinokatyamadza". Ford chinowanzoitika kugoverana pfungwa yake maonero, nekuti, usazeza kusiya mukadzi wake nokuda mai wake. Mushure kuvhura kwechaunga, vaviri akanga nokutya kuti makore 15 ari mujeri uye ari panhengo dzebonde.

mupfungwa zvinokonzera

Zvisinei, Kim uye Ben, akazvitsaurira munzanga dambudziko zvaikodzera vamwe zvichemo, zvichida iri-shanduka chechetere. Siya panguva mbiru nerokukanganisa uye nehasha uye edza kutarisa zvakadzama kupinda dambudziko. Pashure pezvose, chero zvarakasiya pabonde avo mupfungwa zvinokonzera.

You Haingambovi kushamisika kuti kwomurume varume vangangowedzera kupa zvinodiwa navo, kufanana vanaamai vavo, uyewo vakadzi vanosarudza varume, uchivayeuchidza nokuda madzibaba avo. Ichi chinoshamisa mu zvepfungwa inonzi akanaka imprinting. Kuti ndiratidze vakakundikana masayendisiti ake zvesayenzi Icelandic. Tapedza 2008 kudzidza, vakaona kuti hama kure vane mukana kubereka mukuru nhamba yevana utano kupfuura zvatinosiita vaviri. Zvichakadai, pachine pfungwa "kunaka imprinting," kana zvimwe pave Westermark. Panyaya iyi munhu anoramba chero pabonde kukwezvana vanhu vaaigara navo somwana, kusanganisira vabereki, hama nehanzvadzi.

Saka, zvichida, mubatanidzwa zvakanaka imprinting chacho kushayikwa kunaka shanduro zvakakonzera zvinorwadza maitiro Ben Ford?

tsamwisa zvabuda

Wepfungwa Judith Venben Smith anoti vanhu vakanga vasina utano hwakanaka ukama hwemhuri pauduku, kuedza kwake napo zviparadzanise mumuviri nomupfungwa ichinyaradzwa chido chokurara. Zvisinei, vanogona kuita zvimwe. The chinhu rudo rwavo, muchiitiko ichi, zvinova hama. Iyi haisi mutevedzeri uye kwete chirwere, maererano Judith, ndiyo nzira munhu anopindura manzwiro inomuka apo Kusanganiswazve Nevadiwa, uyo akanga aparadzaniswa uye kuti iye fantasized.

Zvisinei, kubatanidzwa muukama hwakadaro kwakavakirwa zvakasimba mupfungwa "misfire" rinogona kuva nemhosva mbiri kunoparadza. The vanhu emakunakuna Rudo yave uye achava kunorambidzwa nyaya, uye vanhu vakanga vakaenda makunakuna, mukana kure nenzanga. Mukuwedzera, vachagara nokusingaperi vanorasikirwa mukana kusika utano ukama hwemhuri.