Psychology: kupi kunotanga kudzidza iwe pachako

Pakati pezvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvehupenyu hwehupenyu, mukati memukati wehuunhu kune zvakawanda zvisingazivikanwi. Uye hupenyu huno hwemukati huri mune zvimwe zvinhu hunokosha kune mumwe munhu kupfuura kune imwe kunze, sezvo kushungurudzika kune psyche hakupore kwemakumi makumi emakore, kusiyana nemarwadzo emuviri. Izvi zvinonyatsozivikanwa kune vanofunga nezvepfungwa - vanhu vane hupenyu hunozvipira pakudzidza zvakavanzika zvemweya. Uye, zvechokwadi, chido chekunzwisisa chimwe chinokosha.

Ndiani anoisa tsoka pamugwagwa wekuzvidzidzira, anofanira kufamba nenzira yakaoma. Ndeapi matambudziko makuru ekudzidza chikonzero nei zvakaoma kunyatsoziva sayenzi yepfungwa; Ndekupi kwatinofanira kudzidza? Ngatiedzei kunzwisisa.

Methodology

Kana munhu akasarudza kupinda muchidzidzo chesayenzi yakadaro sepfungwa, mumwe munhu anofanira kunyatsozviziva nemaitiro e sayenzi. Uye kupedza nguva yakawanda achiverenga mabhuku akasiyana-siyana.

Asi kupi kunotanga kudzidza kudzidza kwepfungwa iwe pachako? Nzira yekuwana sei ruzivo ruzivo rwaunogona kuvimba nayo mberi nekudzidza sayenzi mu-yakadzika? Pasina zvinyorwa zvinorayirwa, hapana sayenzi chaiye iripo. Chokutanga, nyaya yesayenzi uye nzira inodzidzwa. Methodology - kuongorora kwakarongeka kwevaya nzira dzinoshandiswa mune ino sayenzi kuwana ruzivo.

Tanga newe. Sei uye sei

Kutanga kwekudzidza kwepfungwa dzepfungwa dzevanhu ndiko kunzwisisa kwezvinangwa zvako. Chokutanga pane zvose, zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti nei danho rokutanga rakatorwa kuti riongorore mufambiro wevanhu: kunzwisisa zvakanaka kukura kwevana uye kuvabatsira kuti vakurirane kana vari ivo pachavo kukura, kana kuti vanoda kuva vadzidzisi uye kuwana mukana wekubatsira kunze.

Zvakakoshawo kuziva kusati kwambo rutivi rwesayenzi iwe uchanodzidza zvakakwana: zvinyorwa kana zvinoshanda. Zvakaoma kuwana pasina kuziva kuti chii. Kunyanya mugungwa rine ruzivo.

Mabhuku pamusoro pepfungwa. Ndezvipi zvitsva zvinodiwa

Ndeapi mabhuku anotanga kudzidza kudzidza kwepfungwa? Kuti udzidze nheyo dzehupi nesayenzi, munhu anofanira kutanga kubva pazvinyorwa: izvo zvakanyanya zvikamu, mazwi uye pfungwa - izvi zvose zvinogona kuwanikwa mune rimwe bhuku rekutanga remakore. Mabhuku ezvidzidzo akadaro anowanikwa mumataibhurari emaguta ose. Kunyange zvazvo vasina kunyatsonyorwa kunyorwa, uye vakazadza tsanangudzo nematafura, vanofanirwa kunge vaine ruzivo. Zvakare zvichava nyore. Mushure mekuverenga bhuku rino rekutanga, unoda kuwana zvikoro zvepfungwa: K. Jung, K. Horney, A. Adler, E. Fromm uye, zvirokwazvo, unoda kuziva basa ra Freud.

Bhuku rinonakidza uye rinofadza I. Yalom "Apo Nietzsche akanga achichema." Iwe unokwanisa kubva kutsvaga bhuku ravanyori mune nzira iyo inofadza panguva ino.

Mabhuku eAkanyori akawanda kwazvo, zvakakosha kuwana munyori uyo ari unyanzvi uye ave achishanda mundima iyi kwemakore anenge gumi. Zvadaro ruzivo rwakanyorwa nemunyori kune muverengi ane kodzero, uye runogona kubva mazviri munguva yemberi.

Usakanganwa kuti zvakakosha kune unyanzvi wepfungwa kuziva zvidzidzo zvefilosofi nemagariro evanhu. Zvakakosha kuumba mafungiro evanhu, sayenzi - kwete zvidzidzo chete uye izvo.

Tsanangudzo inewo mashoko akawanda anobatsira kune chirevo chepfungwa mune ramangwana. Vanyori-mapokaji akajekesa zvakajeka zvakaita nyika yepakati uye zviito zvevarwi avo vakagadzirwa. Kuongorora kukuru kunogona kuwanikwa mumabhuku aF Dostoyevsky.

Magazini uye mabhuku

Munzvimbo yakawanda inoshamisa yemazuva ano, kuwana chinyorwa chinogamuchirwa uye chinonakidza pamusoro pepfungwa hakusi dambudziko. Maunivhesiti akawanda anoparadzira magazini yavo pachavo uye anoshandisa shanduro dzakasununguka dzeIndaneti vakasununguka. Iwe unongoda kuwana magazini iyo ichanyatsoziva uye inobatsira kwauri mundima yakasarudzwa yesayenzi.

• "Russian Psychological Journal."
• Nhamba yeVAK "Vestnik VlGU".
• "Ongororo Psychology."
• "Mafungiro anowanikwa uye ane vanhu."
• Online-journal psychologies.ru.
• Vamwe.

Ipepanhau repepanhau re psychologies.ru rakasikwa nekuda kwevadzidzi vakawanda. Kana uchida zvinyorwa zvezvesayenzi zvakanyorwa nevashandi vezvikoro, zviri nani kuverenga mabhuku ehurumende. Zvakadai se: "Russian Psychological Journal."

Nyika yepfungwa. Basic directions

Ndezvipi zvinoshandiswa mazuva ano panyaya dzepfungwa? Nzira yekutanga sei kudzidza mamiriro ekugadzirwa kwemashoko makuru eyi sayenzi? Iwe haugone kubudirira mune zvose panguva imwe chete, uye iwe unoda kuziva nzira iyo munhu achanzwa aine chivimbo zvikuru, iyo iri pedyo naye kuti adzidze uye ashandise.

Makirasi mazano ndeaya:

• Kunzwisisa;

• Gestalt psychology;

• Chikoro chepfungwa;

• Humanistic;

• Deep.

Uye kune mazano matsva: psychodrama, coaching, transpersonal psychology uye neurolinguistic programming.

Kutaurirana kusingabatsiri sechikonzero

Pasina izvo sayenzi yepfungwa haina kubatwa? Nzira yekutanga sei kudzidza? A anotanga inoda kudzidza zvose zvidzidzo uye tsika. Uye ita zvinoenderana, pakarepo famba kunze: dzidza kuteerera, dzidza kuteerera kune zvisiri zvemashoko. Iyi tsika inokosha sezvakangoita pakudzidza mutauro wokumwe unoda kuti utaure mutongo wacho pakarepo.

Nzira dzisiri dzemashoko dzinofanirwa kune interlocutor; Dzidziso yekutaura kwemashoko isingatauri kuti zviratidzo zvekutarisa kwechiso uye chimiro chemunhu chinotaura zvakawanda nezvomukatikati mukati memashoko. Muongorori wepfungwa akanaka "anotora" humwe hwemunhu ari pedyo naye mukuonekwa kwake. Kunyange kana iwe usingaendi kudzidzira unyanzvi hwepfungwa, asi iwe chete unofarira mazviri, zviratidzo zvisiri zvemashoko zvinofanira kudzidziswa kugadzirisa. Izvi zvingaita kuti zvigadzirise kukurukurirana nehama neshamwari.

Unhu hupi hwehutano hunofanira kutanga

Kushanda nevanhu hazvibviri zvachose pasina kushanda pachako pachako. Nyanzvi yepfungwa ndeye inoongorora mweya. Saka kuongorora kwepfungwa kunobatwa. Nzira yekutanga sei kudzidza maitiro nematambudziko evamwe? Kubva kushanda pamunhu wako pachake. Nokuti haugoni kuziva vamwe usingazivi iwe pachako.

Psyche - yaiva mwarikadzi-mweya, maererano naizvozvo, sayenzi yemweya haigoni kuongororwa pasina rudo rwe mweya yevanhu. Zvakakosha kuti uwane kuzviisa panzvimbo yeumwe uye kuratidza manzwiro ake uye manzwiro ake. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa inodawo mano akanaka ekuzvifungidzira-pachake uye kuzvifungidzira-izvo, kukwanisa kunzwisisa manzwiro aanoita uye maitiro. Mano ekutaura nemashoko ekutaura nemunhu chero upi zvake.

Zvechokwadi, hazvisi nyore kwazvo kudzidza psychology yevanhu. Kwatanga kupi? Ita kuti uzive. Kune nyanzvi yezvepfungwa, ichi ndicho chinhu chinokosha. Kana munhu mutsva ari kutarisana nemubvunzo uyu: sei kutanga kudzidza kudzidza kwepfungwa iwe pachako, zvino zviri nani kuchinja zvakare - uyo unotanga kudzidza. Kubva kwaari. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa haigone kugadzirisa zvinetso zvevamwe kunze kwekuti iye akadzidza kugadzirisa zvinetso zvake, matambudziko, kutya nekutambudzika.

Zvinyorwa

Kureba uye kudiwa kwekuchengetwa kwayo mumufambiro wekukurukurirana kunodzidzwa nesayenzi yakadaro sa proxyemics. Iko pfungwa inoiswa musainzi naEdwin Hall.

Edward Hall akaunza munyika yesayenzi yezvipfungwa zvepfungwa dzepfungwa 4, dzinofanira kuonekwa pakutaurirana:

• Intimate;
• Iwe pachako;
• Nharaunda yenzanga;
• Paruzhinji.

Kunzwisisa humo hwemukati hwevanhu hahusi nyore. Kuverenga bhuku hazviiti zvanzwisisika, kana munhu anotanga asingakwanisi kuziva mweya wemukati we interlocutor.

Nyanzvi yepfungwa haigoni kumanikidzira munhu. Kana asingachengeti kure, munhu achavhara uye haazozvibvumiri munyika yake yomukati.