Kuzvipira, Psychology
Mhanje Kubwinya Kwomunhu
Shanje sehutano hwemunhu - muitiro wekuwana kusagutsikana, kutsamwa uye kushungurudza kubva kune hupenyu hwakanaka uye kubudirira kweumwe, kushuva kushandisa zvakanaka kune mumwe munhu kufara, kunzwa kuti mumwe munhu akakuvadza iwe mamiriro ako ezvinhu uye mufaro.
Ikoko kwakanga kune imwe Hare pakati pehara. Marara mazhinji akatarisa kwaari: nekukurumidza kudarika ani zvake mumunda haana kumhanya! Zvinoratidzika kuti zvinorarama kwaari uye kufara, asi ... Hareruki yaiva negodo negodo reTurtle. "Heano anorarama! Heino anorarama! Waifunga Hare. - Iva nehomwe pamusana wake akapfeka! Akakwezva musoro wake nemakumbo - uye akanga atova pamba. Hungu, ihwo huni! Simba sedombo, uye nekamu. Oo, uye nhanho yebenzi Turtle! .. "Uye kwose kwose Hare akanyomba Huru, uye kwose kwaakatuka, akaudza pamusoro pake nyaya dzose, akamuseka. Akatotadza kurwara negodo. "Chinetso chii kwauri?" - Akabvunzwa Hare Hare Squirrel. - Sei iwe uchifa? "Nemhaka yevakakanganiswa Turtle," Hare akadaro. "Handigone kumuona, anonditsamwisa zvikuru!" Iko hove pamusana wako! Nechimiro ... Uye Iyo inofamba kupfuura chero munhu upi noupi, inoitira shanje hareru, iyo inogona kumhanyisa zvakakurumidza.
Mhanje inopesana nenyaya mbiri dzenhema. Kana munhu achidzingwa nekudada uye kuzvida, iye, kutevera zvaanoda, nguva dzose achasangana nezvido zvevamwe, uye kwete kuti kutungamirirwa kwavo kuchaenderana. Pane kudaro, pane zvinopesana - zvinangwa zvake uye zvido zvinokwikwidzana nezvido zvevamwe. Mune rimwe shoko, kana vaviri vaviri vachikwirirana mubhora rekuchiva kwakashata, shanje yeruchiva, izere nekuchiva, utsinye, kutsoropodza, kushungurudzika uye kusagutsikana, yakasarudzwa. Kuzviraramira zvinoreva kudzivirira vamwe kuti vazvirarame ivo pachavo. Nokudaro negodo, uye nokuda kwehasha dzake uye ruvengo. Kubva kune rumwe rutivi hausviki negodo, udyire uye kuzvifarira kune kwose kwose.
Vanhu vane godo vanonyengera vanoti zvinhu zvose munyika imwe chete zvakasvibiswa, kuti godo inhu hwevanhu vasina hanya uye kuti haugone kuvanza kana kuvanza. Ndinofanira kuvhiringidza ivo. Murume akadzikisa kuzvikudza, kunyanya mumhando dzakadai dzekuzviratidza sekuzvikudza, kuzvirumbidza uye kutsoropodza, anova munhu anofara muve wakachena neine godo remwoyo. Tongere iwe pachako, kana munhu asinganamati kunze, haazvirumbidzi pamusoro pekubudirira kwake uye kubudirira uye akadzinga kunze kwekukurukurirana kwake kutaura zvishomanana kwekutsoropodza, zvinoreva chinhu chimwe bedzi - hapana godo maari. Asi, saMark Twain akanyora kuti: "Haasi vazhinji vedu vanogona kutakura mufaro-zvinoreva, mufaro wemuvakidzani".
Ndezvipi zvinhu zvine godo revanhu vakanaka? Munhu akakomborerwa, aona chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka mukuzvibata kwevamwe, anoderedza chishuvo chokutsoropodza uye, nokudaro, anozadzisa mafungiro asina kufanira. Paanosangana nemunhu akakodzera, anoedza kudzidza kubva kwaari chiremera, unyanzvi, unyanzvi uye haadi kuti iye avarashike. Chaizvoizvo, izvi zvakare godo, asi, sezvavanotaura, vachena, vane godo negodo. Kuva negodo nezvakanaka nekurikopa, iwe uchava mhando. Kusava negodo mune zvido zvinosarura uye zvinogadziriswa, haaiti godo chete vanhu vake vepedyo, asi anogodora munhu wose. Mune mamwe mazwi, inobatanidzwa mukuzvinyengera uye kuzviruramisa. Munhu asingazivi anokwanisa kuratidza kusasarura nokuti haazive ruvara rwemufaro kubva muupenyu hwakanaka. Mupindwa muropa nezvinodhaka uye doro haagoni kuva negodo nemudzidzisi wenyanzvi uyo ari kuita basa raHaydn. Havanzwisisi izvi.
Somuenzaniso, muvakidzani akatenga motokari itsva, uye munhu ane godo ane alarm uye kushungurudzika pamwoyo wake. Zvinenge zvisingagoneki kuti iye ararame, zvakaoma kufema, nokuti Jaba inogumbuka. Godo nderokuramba kurarama hupenyu hwako pachako. Kubva negodo haunokure wakasimba, asi kuputika. Manzwiro emhanje anonzwika pane imwe ndege yakaonda nemwene weMercedes. Nokuda kwenhema, hapana mararamiro. Iwe unogona kugodora hama kana shamwari iri kune imwe mugumo wePasi, uye ego yake yenhema inonzwa kunzwa godo mumutsara wechipiri. Nhema yemuvakidzani iyo inotanga kubuda ichibva kuchiratidzo chinogamuchirwa chegodo, uye iye achatanga kunzwa kuti haadi iwe. Iwe hauna kutaura chimwe chinhu chakaipa pamusoro pake, asi, zvisinei, ukama hwako hunoparadzwa nekurwisa kwegodo. Idzi mbiri idzi dzakatanga kutaurirana, kusanganisa kusagutsikana kwemuviri mubhora. Zvadaro zvinyengeri zvenhema zvekutanga zvinotanga kukwevera zvinyorwa zvenhema zveimwe. Kubatana kwemashoko maviri enhema kune godo. Mune rimwe shoko, godo harifaniri kutaurirana zvakananga, kurwisana, zvinokanganisa nekutukwa. Zvakashata kufungidzira kana kuratidza chinhu chinokonzera godo, uye chinoputika sedhiyabhorosi kubva mubhokisi.
Murume ane godo anodedera, uye anonyunyuta kune mumwe muvakidzani: "Kwete chete kuti ndakatenga, mutengesi, handizivi kuti mari yemotokari ndeipi, saka inoiswededza pedyo nepamukova. Usapfuura, usapfuura. " - "Saka iwe hauna motokari," muvakidzani anoti, chii chiri kukumisa? "-" Uye ini, sezvandinoona, mafungiro ezuva rose akarasika. Ndinoda kuzvisungirira. Sei kune chimwe chinhu, nepo vamwe vachigara vachipfuura mabhizimusi emari? Sezvo achigara mumotokari, saka haaiti hako, haafungi munhu somunhu. " Iyi ndiyo iyo godo rinoshandisa, kuparadza munhu nekumukonzera kutambura kukuru.
Kusuruvara uye kusuruvara kunomuka chete kubva pamhanje yavo. Democritus akati: "Munhu ane godo anoita kuti ashungurudzike, semuvengi wake." Kana pasina godo mumunhu, mumwe munhu ane godo haasi akaipa. Muchihedheni cheheroin chegodo, baba vake vanoberekwa zvakananga. Nzira chete inonzwisisika yekukunda godo ndeyekuita zvakanaka nekuremekedza munhu ane godo, nesimba rake rose kumuchifadza. Kuedza kuita maonero eMadrid, kuti hapana chiri kuitika - zvinoreva kukurudzira kuwedzera kukura kweshanje.
Mhanje haigamuchiri kupomerwa mumakero ayo, nguva dzose uye mune zvose zvakanaka. Kuti amugutsikane nezveiyo basa raMartyshkin. Vanhu vanoti: "Imbwa dzenyu dziri kurwisana - usaswedera kune mumwe munhu asingazivi". Kana vaviri vacho vachikakavadzana, vachifunga kuti ndeupi wavo ari kukodzera, munhu wechitatu haafaniri kutora nhengo, kunyange kana akarurama. Ichokwadi ndechokuti avo vanotambura pakarepo pachava negodo sekuti ndiani wakasimuka kune rumwe rutivi. Pane chisingaiti: vakakavadzana uye vakatiza, uye uyo akatora rutivi rweumwe anowana mafuta asingadariki uye haazomboregererwi. Kuitira godo zasyadet, seminzwa mumoyo wemunhu akagumburwa.
Munhu ane godo anozvienzanisa kuzvifananidza pachake, hupenyu hwake hwehupenyu nevamwe vanhu. Kuenzanisa kwakava tsika kwaari. Sezvo pasi pe "gore" rekuenzanisa iri kubudirira zvikuru, asi munguva pfupi yapfuura paiva nehupamhi imwechete nevanogodo, vanhu, zviri nyore kufunga kuti chii chichava kupisa kwekusagutsikana newe pachako. Munhu ane godo anofanira kufananidza hupenyu hwake huripo neyekare, ipapo hakuzovi negodo. Kodzero uye tsumo dzeAfrica dzakachenjera: "Mishonga yegodo - gwenga."
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