Misikanzwa vana - ndiwo chaiwo?

Hapana vana misikanzwa, sezvo pasina vana vakakwana uye vanoteerera. mwana Chero achiita zvakasiyana mu "ezvinhu akapiwa" akasiyana. Uye zvakanaka. Time, nzvimbo, vanhu uyo mwana interacts uye zvakawanda zvakasiyana-siyana zvinoita kuti anogona kutsauka chero ngirozi iri Dhimoni Duku, ndiEzekieri.

Vasingateereri mwana nguva vamwe chikonzero, uye kwete chete. vakura basa - kunzwisisa zvinokonzera uduku vachida. Chokwadi, unofanira kufungawo yomwana zera. Kusateerera vatatu kukambaira rakasiyana "kunoisawo" kuyaruka, asi vari kwakavakirwa chimwe chinhu - chido ndirumbidzwe, kuratidza hunhu.

Kubva nemaonero wepfungwa, matambudziko dzidzo yevana vari yakawedzera panguva zvimwe zvokukura upenyu. Vana Vasingateereri anogona yakarurama ingozvibatai nguva anonyadzisa shoma muupenyu hwangu. Rinoreva vanonzi nematambudziko 3, 7 uye makore 13.

Muna 3 years nokukurumidza zvikuru anotanga kuratidza mwana unhu. Munguva iyi zvakakosha chaizvo kunzwisisa kuti unhu mwana zvino kwete zvikuru nokuda kwake pachake unhu sezvo dzinongoitika yevanhu noruzhinji. Mumakore dambudziko makore matatu zera, mwana wacho nzvimbo, "Ini pachangu" munyika unorira "hatidi Handidi, kwete." Iyi ndiyo nguva yakaoma, kwete chete nokuda vabereki, vari kuvhunduka nokuda rokuchinja mwana wako kufadza chin'a Dhimoni Duku. Hazvisi nyore kuti azvidavirire nokuda, uye kwemakore matatu, haana kuziva sei kukurira manzwiro avo uye kudzivirira kodzero dzavo iripo nzira dzose.

aivabatsira zvikuru hwavamwe sezvinobvira, pokushandisa nemitemo hwomwana kutamba. Kuti zviri nani kubvuma chokwadi chokuti ndiye munhu mukuru uye ane kodzero yokusarudza zvimwe chisingakuvadzi dambudziko, akadai chii ruvara masokisi kupfeka. Panguva iyoyowo, dzimwe nyaya dzinokosha vanofanira kuva nechokwadi munhu mukuru kuti vakasimba uye usarega mwana wako kuti zvinomukira.

Pazera 7, anouya chinotevera yakaoma. Mwana anoenda kuchikoro, anowana itsva ezvinhu iye anotanga nokushingaira kukurukura nevezera. Muupenyu hwake, itsva simba - mudzidzisi wokutanga. Zvakakodzera kugadzirira chokwadi kuti "Maryvanna" ichava mwana wako akangwara kwazvo munhu panyika, shoko raro - Murairo vabereki vanogona uye kuti nharo. Vasingateereri vana vokutanga graders zvino kurarama mitemo yakasiyana zvachose kana kurumbidzwa kwavo mukirasi, kuwedzera mutengo wavo, uye kana amai vose ndimbondotsvoda pfuma yake, anogona uye ndokuseka. Zvakare, vabereki vanofanira kubvuma mitemo - kuchikoro vanofanira "kuchengeta zvizivikanwe" uye imba yakasimba kumupa rudo rwenyu uye ushamwari umo mwana achiri zvikuru kubatsirwa.

Kana mwana akatsauka makore 13 okuberekwa, vabereki vanonzwisisa kuti matambudziko ose yakapfuura vakanga vasiri zvinetso zvose. Adolescence - uyu bvunzo "simba" pamusoro mubereki tsinga. dambudziko Izvi chaizvo zvakafanana muuzivi makore matatu, "Ini pachangu", asi pane imwewo pamwero vana ikozvino misikanzwa anogona kusimudza nyore inzwi rako, slam mukova, muridze imwe chinyadzo kubva chinhu, uye zvichingodaro. Zvokuita iyi? Chokutanga, kushivirira. Iva mwana rutsigiro, shamwari chikuru uye vakatendeka zvikuru, ane nguvo, muuki - ne munhu, chero bedzi aifunga kuti vabereki vake vanomuda, pasinei zvose frills dzayo. Pataikura, vana vari kuramba distancing pachavo kubva kuvabereki vavo, uye zvakakosha panguva imwecheteyo achakwanisa kuramba napedyo ichi.

Misikanzwa vana, mune chero zera vakaita - chete vana. Vose Vanodawo rudo, kuchengetwa uye kudzivirirwa. Kana pane imwe nguva muupenyu vabereki havagoni kubatsira pachavo, zviri nani kuti varege kuenda zvakakomba mukurwisana, uye kuona nyanzvi. Kwepfungwa nokuti mwana anogona kuva, kana kwete namakurukota, "prompter", zvichabatsira kunzwisisa pachavo uye pakupedzisira dzinobatsira kuvandudza mhepo mumba.