Midlife dambudziko nevanhu

Vakadzi vane varume vakuru makumi matatu, kusvikira pamwero kujairana pfungwa ane dambudziko midlife. He ruriko, sezvo kana tisina chokwadi kuti - Angoita zvokufungira uye fungidziro yevaya vanoedza kupembedza Kuparara mhuri. Men, kuuya nguva dambudziko, ndivo chete nevamwe vanhu. Vanogona kuita chinoshamisa chiito, kwete kuda kutsanangura maitiro avo. Ndivo ndoda Fungisisa vakadzi vavo, vamwe vangasanzwisisa maitiro avo, havawani kwakakomba tsanangudzo kuchinja. Change anogona kuva kutishamisa kuti mudzimai wangu anogona kutaura nechivimbo: ". Murume wangu haana kuva zvichaita chete zvakare - zvakaonekwa kuti zvachinja" Kana akaisa nezvitsinga, kuroyiwa. Kazhinji, dzimwe nguva zvinoita sokuti chete tarenda zvikonzero zvakadaro kunogona kutsanangura zviri kuitika. Dururirai mafuta pamoto uye vanoziva - vanoti, ukama haangatongovi akadai vakanga vasati. Zvinosuruvarisa, hatigoni kutaura chokwadi kuti shamwari nevavakidzani zvakaipa. Hapana anogona kuvimbisa kuti murume wangu vaizova munyoro uye rudo mushure yakakodzera musi. Zvisinei, hazvibviri kutaura kuti hapana ukama hwemhuri uye vanofanira kumiswa. Pasinei kunzwisisa mamiriro ezvinhu, regai imbofunga pamusoro pokurambana, zvakawanda mwoyo. Midlife dambudziko murume haafaniri kuparadza makore mashoma oupenyu wake. Edza kurarama wakakwana upenyu mubereko muupenyu wake, uye kwete kutambura uye urombo pachako. Pamusangano zvakakwana yokuwanda varume vakaratidza yekudyidzana dambudziko, asi ivo kuikurira, uye zvikurukuru nemhaka madzimai avo.

Mid-upenyu dambudziko - imwe mhando rinokosha, kana zvakakodzera kutora rwemhuri akararama nguva uye sarudzo. Unofanira kusarudza nzira itsva, uye chii chinofanira kuva, munhu achiri haazivi sei maitiro ake anenge hazvina musoro. midlife dambudziko kazhinji waparadza munhu 35-40 makore asi dzimwe nguva anogona kunonoka kunyange refu - kuratidza makore makumi mashanu. Saka, chii migumisiro kazhinji zvinoonekwa kuti kupfeka ziso? Makore makumi maviri ari kakomana akasarudza kuva mukuru kune makore 25. Iye zvino anenge makumi mana, uye basa uye kana kwaiva, zvishoma. The mhuri kamwe ukama kudanana kare zvikuru noushamwari. Trouble - ndiko kuti chikamu chinangwa anogona kutaura kuti izvi mwoyo mwoyo - hapana somunhu epiphany. Zvisinei, ahwo havasi chaizvo zvakafanana, kana kunyange kwete zvachose, zvakadai sezvamungaita mukadzi. Wife akarota kuti rimwe zuva murume anoziva kuti haasi chaizvo rombo muupenyu - kwete kuti muvakidzani Peter. Pashure murume kunzwisisa zvakadaro, maererano pfungwa wake, vakakurumidza anofanira akarova basa ipfuure muvakidzani. Asi chokwadi, murume wangu haaiti chinhu, asi achiri akatsamwa nguva dzose.

Murume nechomukati panicking - mupenyu pamwe vakararama, asi hapana chinokosha asingagoni asvika. A chepfungwa dambudziko ndechokuti yapfuura nebudiriro munhu anotanga kuonekwa vasingakoshi kana totaura midlife dambudziko, zvinoita sokuti zvose zvakanga vakatsvaka pamberi - maturo uye asingabatsiri, akararama kwete zviripo, uye upenyu hutsva gare gare. Men pasi mana angatanga kufunga kuti vakaita chose yakawanda nguva vamwe, achikanganwa pachavo, saka kakawanda vari ugokandwa maelstrom zvakaitika itsva uye nefemero. Zvisinei, vanoita sevanonyanya randomly kuchinja zvinhu zvose izvi muupenyu - kubasa, dzimwe nguva kuedza kutiza mhuri. Dzimwe zvangoitikawo kuti munhu anofukidza mwoyo. Haana kunetseka anorarama chete ndangariro kare uye kufunga sei kuti zvose vakaungana, kana azadziswa hope hwake.

Kune varume anenge Vasingazvioni uye painlessly kukunda dambudziko pakati zera. Psychology anobata pakudzidza iyi youpenyu, uye tinogona kutaura chokwadi kuti vanhu ava vakasvimha. Chokutanga, vaya vari kubudirira, vakabatikana nezvinhu waunoda, kuunza mari yakanaka. Vaya zvakakwana kuona zvavanokwanisa kubasa, mumwe ari mumhuri kudanana uye vaneshungu ukama. Mukuwedzera, dambudziko vanokwanisa kumativi ichi mhando varume vakanga havafariri kuongorora upenyu hwake, izvo chete kurarama chipo. Nemamwe mashoko, dambudziko chisingaoneki kune avo vari kuita uye vasina nguva kuwira mafungiro - hapana nguva. vanhu ava vane ushamwari ukama mumhuri, pane kuvimba uye kuremekedzana. Chokwadi, hatigoni kutaura kuti vamwe havana uhwu. Just vakasara inokosha zvinoumba rudo rwavo maduku akafira kurema upenyu uye tose pfundepfunde.

Wink midlife dambudziko anogona nenzira dzakawanda, asi pane chakajairika kuchiitwa zvose hunhu izvi - murume kuchinja setsika ine upenyu, apo nokuchengeta kure wake.

The kupfuura kunaka chepfungwa - zvakafanana unoda. Izvi zvinoitwa kuti purogiramu kupenya, mavambo. Husband kupfuura dzose amire girazi, kuedza kutarisa vaduku. Zvinogona chitanga utano hwavo kuti hazvigoni kunzi munhu kubvisa. Murume harimiri funga pangadai hwake, nokurikunda kamwe akasiyana mhinduro. Izvi zvinoshanda pakusarudza basa, nzvimbo dzokugara, mudzimai wake. murume wako anogona kuva namahwindo kana dambudziko raiva tiwedzere chero mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma. Man flips-refu akaronga zvirongwa semhuri.

Tichingotarisa, pane pakawanda unofanira kutevera mukadzi iyi murume akaoma.

Chokutanga - murefu, asi vorega kuna chokwadi kuti uyu murume hurumende hunogara gore kana makore mashanu. Edza kuiita nenguva iyo kudzvanyirira hasha. Zvishoma kutyisidzira kurambana, anonyunyuta nokupika. Panguva iyoyowo, edza kuita kuti nguva nguva inogarwa pakati-zera dambudziko, murume wake, haana akadonha kubva hwako. Regai omerera dambudziko, murume anogona kunyange vanoona tsitsi uye kunyange kutanga vanotozvifarira.

... uye achapfuura. Chero zvazvingava, kushivirira uye chivimbo iwe, anodiwa vakadzi!