Kodzero dzevanhu mhuri - imwe mhuri umo vose murume nomukadzi riri akamira yakaenzana

Time haamiri achiri, uye pamwe pacho kushandura ukama hwevanhu uye nzanga yose zvayo. Panzvimbo ateteguru munzanga sero mudziyo kunobva mhuri dzevanhu. "Ndicho chii ichocho?" - anobvunza muverengi. Ndiro dingindira redu kukurukura. Kana kusunungura makadhi ose kamwechete - kufa mashandiro. "Havafaniri kuva mhanya" Naizvozvo.

Definition uye zviratidzo

Kodzero dzevanhu mhuri - ukama umo kana wako haazviti simba, rakakamurwa zvakafanana pakati pevarume nevakadzi. Ndizvowo zvinoitika pamwe evanhu mabasa uye mudzimba mabasa. Hakuna nokupesana mu "munhurume" uye "munhukadzi." Anoita munhu anogona.

Zviri pachena, mhuri zvakadaro dzevanhu? The zvinhu zvaizobatsira wake anotevera.

1. Ndiro rine chokwadi munhu zvido mhuri (dzinza). In tsika, izvi zvinoreva kuti nhengo dzose dzemhuri kwete chete anoda kuzadzisa ake mhuri, murume kana mukadzi basa, asi kuti vabudirire chinhu ari nyanzvi mumunda. Saka ukama kuti mumutsetse kuti murume nomudzimai vaiva nzvimbo okugadzira zvinhu uye akaziva.
2. Mhuri akasika yakawiriranwa chido varume nevakadzi. The kutituma ndiyo tazvisarudzira. Pano, zvinoita sokuti, hakudi kutsanangura. In Nemuromo, dzevanhu mhuri - ndiyo dzidzo, izvo zvakasikwa nekuti murume nomukadzi kudanana chete. Asi, sezvo tichiziva, dzidziso uye tsika havasi -enderana.
3. Under rimwe denga, regai kurarama zvizvarwa anopfuura maviri (vabereki nevana).
4. Nomudzimai kuronga vana pamwe chete.
5. vana mashoma. With zvose nemigumisiro yayo: kusimbisa pachigaro "Unhu" vana, pane "uwandu". Ndicho chinangwa wake yakawanda sezvingabvira kugadzirira vana kuti mumagariro upenyu: sei kudzidzisa, kusvikira pamwero zvichakubatsira mwana kuwana zvakanaka, zvinofadza uye zvakanaka akaripa basa. Sezvo vana havasi vazhinji (imwe kana mbiri), ipapo murume mukadzi haakanganwi nezvako nokubatanidza mubereki nevamwe munzanga mabasa. Zvaaiva mugumisiro: bonde kunoonekwa seinokonzera mafaro, kwete nenzira kubereka.
6. Yakakwirira mwero mumagariro uye nenzvimbo mufambo. Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, shoko "kwaakanga akazvarirwako uye batsira" kwete pamusoro dzevanhu vomumhuri. Vanhu vachinje mabasa uye suduruka kana zvakakodzera. Kwete kutaura kuti zviri nyore uye vakasununguka, asi dambudziko kwayo, zvakare, hapana anoita.
7. Tipiwe nhaka kwevarume mhuri pfuma vakaenzana mune mashoko pamutemo.

Kodzero dzevanhu mhuri - chinhu echimurenga chinhu unokubvumira "fema" uye varume nevakadzi. Asi pasina tichienzanisa nedzimwe mhando ukama zano mhuri havagoni kunyatsonzwisisa kukosha kwayo.

Mhando mhuri. patriarchy

Ndezvipi zvingaitwa? Panewo yemadzitateguru uye matriarchal mhuri. Very zvishoma udza nezvavo kunzwisisa musiyano.

The maitiro zviri yemadzitateguru mhuri:

1. Ndiro rine chokwadi munhu pamusoro mhuri zvido.
2. Kuunza Sero iri anopinywa kwete zvokuzvisarudzira uye kuda murume nemukadzi, uye upfumi zvido vomumhuri vari chikamu paumbwe "mhuri ateteguru".
3. Mhuri mupenyu "mapute makuru muviri." Under rimwe denga anogona kurarama kwezvizvarwa anoverengeka uye nemapazi mhuri.
4. Vana vakawanda. Uye iye, zvakare, iri zvinosiyana zveupfumi zvido. More vana - vamwe vashandi.
5. Mukadzi haagoni zvinodzongonyedza pamuviri, kunyange kana achida. Izvi hakubvumidzwi neDare Family Code. About chero toronga kwaita mubvunzo yevana. Mukadzi "zvibereko" kusvikira kunogona.
6. Change dzokugara kana basa mumhuri yakadaro hazvigoni kunzi. dzidzo yakadaro chaizvo zveufende mumagakava mupfungwa.
7. Anoziva ndiro rine chokwadi tsika uye tsika, zvatinoda uye tsika haana kukurukurwa.
8. Property nezvimwe zvinokosha zviri nhaka chete kuburikidza hono mutsetse.

Hatigoni kutaura kuti "democratic mafungiro" - vanzwisise kuti asina kuzivikanwa kuti vanhu vanogara yemadzitateguru seakafuridzirwa?

matriarchy

About matriarchy somunhu magariro kutaura kuoma, nokuti vanhu vazhinji vachiri kudavira kuti akanga asina. Nepo Erich Fromm, kureva Bach, maonero aya anoramba. Nemamwe mashoko, gakava pasi nzira. Dambudziko nderekuti kana vanhu vanotaura pamusoro vekare, pane nhoroondo, kuchera matongo uye mungano Kubatanidza pamwechete, uye vakaparadzaniswa umwe hazvibviri. Chero zvazvingava, akanga kare kuti nezvazvo izvi zvakadzama kwakaoma, chete zviratidzo vanoti zvazviri anozivikanwa:

1. Mhuri akasikwa kumativi vakadzi, kwete vanhu.
2. Nhaka uye pfuma tsika kuburikidza mwana nema mutsetse.
3. Pedigree runoonekwa vanamai uye hadzi vamiririri genus.

Matriarchy - zvirokwazvo inofadza chakajairika, kunyanya "ano shanduro" kana zviri pamutemo muna ukama chinzvimbo "mhuri dzevanhu" (zviri pachena, kuti ndiye) uye chaizvoizvo matriarchal, apo munhu - chokuzviisa pasi pake Kufananidzira (ndiye zvazvakaitawo Patriarchate, kana mukadzi tinofanira murume pa wevakadzidza kuenzana vemapato).

Achipedzisa kukurukurirana pamusoro mhando mhuri, Somuenzaniso, kuti vatsigiri matriarchal uye ateteguru mhuri munyika zvose zvakakwana. Uyewo, pane nyika apo muenzaniso basa, avo kubudirira woKumadokero chinonetsa mutongi.

Vakaroorana Household zvakafanana

Pashure cursory kuongorora nzira mhuri, zvakava pachena nei dzevanhu mhando mhuri Zvinosarudzwa vamwe varume uye vamwe vakadzi. Zvisinei, tarisa kubva kumativi akasiyana.

Advantages:

• kuenzana;
• kunzwisisa;
• rusununguko;
• mufambo;
• Nhaurirano senzira mhuri kuvapo.

Papepa, muenzaniso sei zvakanaka kuti zvakaoma kuwana zvikanganiso. Panguva ino tinofanira kuyeuka kuti Russia ine tsika simba, kuti haisi zvose zvakatipoteredza vanhu kutsigira mberi pfungwa zvavo, uye pfungwa mhuri umo neimwe nhengo yemhuri asingaiti chinhu chinoda chechikadzi basa naye, uye chii chingaitwa kunyanya. Naizvozvo, kana uchichenjera kwokusakwana, somuenzaniso: muenzaniso anogona kukonzera munhu asingashiviriri vamwe vanhu, uyewo kudzidzisa zvivako, kana vaviri ari kuita "muchato vakaenzana" mune ateteguru ezvinhu.

Social wakaenzana murume nomudzimai

Kodzero dzevanhu muchato kunosanganisira kwete chete kodzero asiwo mabasa sezvo mudzimai uye murume. Chokwadi kuti munyika ino, varume nevakadzi vane kuchinjaniswa redistributes pokutanga. Somuenzaniso, mari haizorambi dambudziko remunhu. Kudivi rimwe, ichi zvakanaka, nekuti murume wake havachanzwi oga mupfungwa iyi, anoziva kana kuti chinhu chaizoitika, mudzimai wangu kwete chete mutsika asiwo nemari. Ukuwo, zviri zvakaipa nokuti mukadzi uye murume haachagoni kufadza vakadzi mabasa uye hana dzevanhu kushandisa paakaita okuti: "Uri munhu!" Kana "Uri mukadzi!". Pano, mumwe womumhuri anokonzera mumwe uye vanhuwo vana.

mupfungwa kukwana

Of mirayiridzo inokosha muchato wakadaro mumwe hunhu dzevanhu mhuri, aitonga ari musoro wenyaya muchikamu. Zvinoshamisa zvakakwana, zvichida, kuti govera nemanzwiro muukama ari oga boka. Asi nokuti muenzaniso inopa qualitatively yakasiyana mukukurukurirana, wadii kutaura kuti kuenzana ane kwaibatsira pamusoro mupfungwa okunze mumhuri? Rudo maruva, kana inokura ivhu rusununguko. Uye udzvanyiriri chete vanofanira kubata pakuti, kunetswa haigoni kunzi rudo. Kana mumwe wako asingadi kuremekedza, regai kukoshesa mumwe, uye saka anoramba hwose, achiunganidza mhosva, uye ivo kunyange dzisina, kuchetura mumhuri.

Kodzero dzevanhu muchato chinoonekwa ichi akapoteredza uye akasiyana zvachose patriarchy uye matriarchy. Handifungi kuti ndizvo zvimwe yakanaka. Chokutanga, zvechokwadi kuenzana nemunhu saka shoma (nokuti vamwe chikonzero, kunokurukurwa pazasi), uye chepiri vakawanda muchimiro dzevanhu mhuri vanogutsikana - munhu ano patriarchy uye matriarchy. Somuenzaniso, apo vose basa, asi vari kuti zvinhu, kana munhu anoti, "Uyu mubhizimisi womukadzi" A mudzimai neapo anotiyeuchidza: "Iva munhu!" Tinofunga kuti muverengi anonzwisisa zvauri kureva. Chokwadi, tinogona kutaura kuti mhuri dzevanhu, kufanana chero kwetunhu, rine mu vapfurwa muchimiro kunaka chinyorwa uye zvinyorwa zvokupikisa, pasi mitemo Hegelian dialectic. Asi kududzirwa - inyaya kuravidza.

Kodzero dzevanhu muchato - kusimba dzidzo

Zvakaratidza kuti kuroorana vakaenzana - wakachena mufaro? Kwete chaizvo. Ndiro rine chokwadi nomumwe zvido pamusoro mhuri rizere nezvinetso zvakawanda. Somuenzaniso, unogona kuyeuka firimu uye "The World Maererano Garp" bhuku. Kana vaviri vakaedza mumwe arege kupedza kana kunyange zvichiita kukanganwira kusavimbika. Wife Garp zvimwe kutsungirira, uye iye - kwete. Uyezve, mumwe haafaniri kufunga kuti democratic muchato kunosanganisira panyaya dzetsika uye zvepabonde rusununguko. Asi muenzaniso zvakazokonzerwa nokusanzwisisana rusununguko uye akaenzana. mhuri iyi chikwata vanhu chete vakura yakakodzera vari vakagadzirira kutora basa. Kana mhuri uye kuroorana - nzira kuchinja upenyu, hazvingaiti yakaenzana uye makasunungurwa kubva udzvanyiriri ukama - ndizvo zvaunoda.

Pakupedzisira, rusununguko - zvakanaka, asi aida tsika, uye mumwe anofanira kuva mumwe mwero njere kuziva kupi kutanga nokuguma ari mabasa zvakanaka. Mumashoko Bernard Shou: "Liberty rinoreva basa, ndokusaka vanhu vakawanda vanotya naye." Uye pasina rusununguko hakusi kuvaka akaenzana uye mupfungwa mhosva ukama. upenyu Modern inopa kushoma pakati mienzaniso mitatu kusarudza kubva kuvaka ukama. Uye ndicho nezvaanogona yose chete, uye zvikuru kusiyana pakati tsika! Naizvozvo, munhu wose anozvisarudzira.