How kudzidzisa mwana wako kuti kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo? Tips uye unyanzvi

Vana vemazera ose vari kushandiswa nokukurumidza zvakakwana kurara nevabereki vavo. Kids, vakanga vakarara kubva pakuzvarwa navo chete pamubhedha, riri ipapo zvakaoma chaizvo nousiku vakarara kamubhedha. How kudzidzisa mwana kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo? Verenga zvimwe pamusoro izvi nyaya yedu vachakuudza.

The optimum zera kuti akazvimirira hope

Chokwadi, chinhu chinonyanya kukosha muupenyu achangozvarwa - ndizvo mai vangu anogara pedyo. Saka vabereki, nechokwadi kunonyanyisa nyaradzo mupfungwa ezvinhu nokuvhuvha, akariisa kurara pedyo naye. Asi sezvo murume shoma vachikura, ivo mubvunzo kushamisika: "sei kudzidzisa mwana kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo?"

Vanachiremba vanoti zvikuru yakakodzera zera kuti kupfuura mwana wake pamubhedha - 2 years. Asi mashoko aya Hazvisi vana vose. Vabereki vanofanira tinyatsoongorora rebonochkom yavo. Izvi zvichabatsira kuti kuona kana takagadzirira kutamira pamubhedha wake muduku.

How kunzwisisa kuti mwana anogona kurara oga?

Saka, kuti aone kana ane mwana akagadzirira kurara oga ake Danga, vabereki vanofanira kuteerera pfungwa dzinotevera:

• Process achiyamwa zvakanaka apera.
• Baby kanorara kwemaawa anoverengeka (5-6) uye asingauyi kumuka.
• Mwana anogona kupedza nguva ndoga mumba (maminitsi 20) uye hazvina kudaidza munhu mukuru.
• Kana iye anomuka uye anoona mai vake parutivi pake, ipapo kudavira zviri zvinoitika (kwete kuchema).
• The mbudzana haakumbiri kakawanda paruoko kuti naamai.
• Mwana akabuda pfungwa pfuma yavo ( "zvangu").

Kana zvose pamusoro mibvunzo, vabereki vanogona kupa mhinduro yakanaka, ipapo zvinokuchengetedzai kutaura kuti mwana akagadzirira kutamira pamubhedha wake.

Kana ndichifanira kumirira?

Musi mubvunzo sei kudzidzisa mwana kurara vasisiri nevabereki vavo pachavo, kunyatsofungwa chaizvo. Extreme matanho uye vatevedzere nezviito zvinogona kukonzera mupfungwa kunotevera kuti mwana, zvokuti iye achava siyana phobias uye kutya. Saka, muna zvinotevera nyaya, unofanira asingapindiri pamusoro "kutama":

• Kid tsamwa, whiny dzimwe nguva inowira hysterics.
• Ane pakukuvara kuberekwa kana zvakakura zvokurwara.
• Mwana anorwara.
• Mwana teething.
• Kuchinja kwemamiriro okunze, nguva munyika dzine, dzavakajaira.
• Mwana rinopfuura kwadzakabva kukireshi.
• Amai pamuviri (mu iyi, mari kuchinja mwana pamubhedha zvakanaka pamberi chiitiko chinokosha).

Muzviitiko zvose izvi chikonzero chakakura kumbosendeka mhinduro dambudziko, sei kudzidzisa mwana kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo.

Independent vaimirira vana 1 gore

Pasina mai kazhinji vanoramba kurara vana avo pakuzvarwa takarara pedyo naye. Chokwadi, nokuti mai vangu mushure nepamuviri uye pakusununguka co-vakarara pamwe mwana - iri rakanaka chaizvo kuita. Naizvozvo, vakuru vakawanda vanotanga kufunga sei kudzidzisa mwana kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo, muna 1 year.

Kusvikira panguva iyoyo, vana kazhinji padzinomuka nokuda kwebasa kana inofamba chirwere zvinodiwa uyewo kudya. Vakuru vanofanira kungwarira zvinokosha ezvinhu kuti inofanira kutorwa kugadzirisa dambudziko sei kudzidzisa mwana kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo;

• Kuti ashandure mwana hope nani pane mumwe uye imwe nguva.
• Haugoni skip naps the nokuti kuti mwana nani manheru kunorara. In vana pasi nguva rimwe gore, anofanira kuva varipo.
• Rangarira zvokudya hurumende kuti mwana haana kumuka kubva kunzwa nzara pashure chete nehope.

How kudzidzisa mwana avate yavo muna 1 gore?

vana makore wajaira dzakazvimirira hope vanoda nezvishoma. Zviri nani kutanga kuzviita ane masikati kumborara. Kana amai vangu Tuck mwana ari Danga, zvinokosha kuti ugare pasi naye, bhabhadzira mumusoro vamupe ruoko. Unogona kupa mwana wako ari "shamwari" itsva - chitoyi.

Zvino yakawanda kuvambundira-toyi, riri nyore kwazvo kuti utore kunorara. Vana kazhinji kurara navo zvinyoronyoro. Amai haadi pakutanga kusiya mukamuri, unogona Somuenzaniso, kuverenga kana knitting, akagara pedyo kamubhedha. Zvishoma nezvishoma, sezvo mwana akaora kushandiswa, zvichiita kusiya kuti nehope oga.

Estivilya nzira

nzira iri rakagadzirirwa vana makore 1-2. Dzimwe nyika, zvinonzi kuonekwa rakajairika. Iyi inzira inoshanda kuti anogona kubatsira kugadzirisa dambudziko sei kudzidzisa mwana kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo.

Muna 3 years, nzira iyi hakushandi. Vana makore matatu kare nesimba ndichirairira pamusoro kuda vabereki vavo, saka kudana kuti nzira iyi kunogona kukuvadza chaizvo mwana, zvichiita yakanyanya mupfungwa.

Chii ndiwo Estevilya unyanzvi? Munyori rinoti vabereki vanofanira kusiya pakarepo mushure mwana akaiswa yoga pamubhedha. Kana nembudzana vamirepo, kuchema kana kuridza mhere, amai pakarepo kuswedera hazvisi zvakakodzera. Zvakafanira kokutanga, chimbomirai zvishoma, uye chete agozopinda, akaisa mwana pamubhedha uye siya zvakare. Uye zvishoma nezvishoma saka kuwedzera zvikamu kudzokera kukamuri. Nokufamba kwenguva, mwana anorara.

Kana mai vangu vakadzokera yokurara, iye rinojekesa kuti mwana wako kuti haasi oga, kuti akanga asina kusiyiwa. Abudirire richakunyararirai uye nokutsungirira vabereki. Estevilya nzira inogona chete kushandiswa kana mwana asina mupfungwa kana chetsinga pathologies.

Independent hope muvana 2 years

How kudzidzisa mwana kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo mumakore 2 years? Nevana izvi kare anogona taurirana uye kujekesa zvinhu. Zvakakosha kutsanangura mafufu kuti nhengo imwe neimwe yemhuri inofanira kuva mubhedha wake. Unofanira kuudza mwana wako kuti aiva munhu mukuru uye zviri nyore kurara pamubhedha wake.

Kazhinji, vana venyika ino kutevedzera vakuru, saka mukana kuti mwanakomana kana mwanasikana kubvuma zuva kuenda kunorara rako guru zvakakwana. Zvishoma nezvishoma, mwana achawana kushandiswa itsva mubhedha uye achaita kurara ikoko usiku.

Nani mubhedha kekutanga kuisa parutivi mubereki sezvo mwana zvakakosha kuziva kuti vari pedyo. Vanachiremba havana dzinokurudzira kuti vakuru takanga tisisanakidzwi mwana tevere, uye ipapo uchatamisa kuti rako inoziva chidyiro chavatenzi vayo. Nzira iyi chete anoshandira vaviri nguva vokutanga, uye ipapo mwana anova fussy uye kudzikama: iye achitya kumuka oga usiku.

Independent hope muvana makore matatu

Vana zera iri hombe kurota, saka vabereki vachafanira kuratidza kwete chete nokushivirira, asi kuti zvinosanganisira savvy. Rengano usiku, nyaya zvinoshamisa zvichabatsira vakuru paakataura sei kudzidzisa mwana kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo.

Muna 3 years mafufu zvinogona kunzi vusiku zvifambiswe shure fairyland kana rungano, apo zvishuvo zvose dzakwana. Uyewo nevana vaviri kana makore matatu, anoshanda zvakanaka nzira "kurovedza": kubatsira mwana kuti kusarudza kuva wakasununguka chinzvimbo akarara. It saka chinoitika kuti vana chete haanyepi pasi zvakanaka. Kana mwana achida kutora naye Danga wokutamba, izvozvo kunokosha kugadzirisa.

How kudzidzisa mwana avate dzavo mumakore 4-5?

Kazhinji, vana makore 4-5 yokuramba kurara ari oga mukamuri kana pamubhedha wake nokuda kwechikonzero:

• kutya rima;
• kutya zvisingazivikanwi fuma kana chikara;
• kutyisa fungidziro;
• kutya rufu.

How kudzidzisa mwana kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo? Pana 4 makore vana vakuru vanogona kurara nani kana mumba uchavhenekerwa nightlight. Uyewo, vabereki vane mwana zvakafanira kutaura zvaaitya uye zvakaitika uye edza kuti abvume kuti imba iri zvachose hapana ngozi.

The mbudzana anofanira kunzwisisa kuti amai kana baba rinotevera mukova kamuri, uye kana zvakakodzera vachauya kununura.

Sei vana havarari mumakore 6-7?

Kune vamwe vana vanogona kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo kunyange panguva mukuru vanoenda kukireshi zera. Kazhinji chikonzero ichi vari phobias siyana uye kutya, uyewo panguva yemakore mashanu zvirongwa.

Vana vanoenda kuchikoro, unogona kunetseka Mutengo, zvidzidzo kana kutya kusatendera mudzidzisi. How kudzidzisa mwana kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo nemakore 6 (Makore 7)? Pano kubatsira nzira zvishoma nezvishoma. habituation, asi inogona kuderedzwa.

Chokwadi, vabereki vanofanira napo kutaura mwana, kuti azive mhosva nokutya kwake. Vana chero zera vanofanira kunzwa rutsigiro uye kubatsirwa vabereki vanofunga kuti havasi voga, kuti kana ngozi, vane chokwadi kubatsira.

Kana vabereki havagoni kukurira dambudziko sei kudzidzisa mwana kurara vasisiri nevabereki vavo 7 nemakore, oga, anofanira kubatanidzwa mwana wepfungwa.

zvishoma nezvishoma kubviswa

A nzira yakanaka kubatsira kupedza dambudziko sei kudzidzisa mwana kurara aparadzane vabereki vavo nemakore 5 uye mukuru, ndiyo nzira zvishoma nezvishoma achibvisa. Amai vanofanira kuudza mwana wako kuti iye ndiye ose zuva uchabva mberi kubva Danga uye ugare ikoko kusvikira iye arara. Zvichaita tarisa chinhu chakadai:

• Mumazuva 2-3 okutanga, unogona kugara nemwana pedyo pamubhedha.
• Zvadaro, nokuti mazuva maviri mai vangu vagere parutivi mubhedha kusvikira mwana asingadi kukotsira.
• Muchikamu chinotevera pezvizuva, mai vangu haadi kumirira kusvikira mwana arara. Isiri nguva refu pashure akagara pedyo Danga, zvazvinoita kure, asi anoramba mumunda maonero mwana.
• Mumazuva akatevera mai vangu panze pamukova, asi kutanga unofanira zvishoma pakudya mwana wako pamusoro mubhedha.

Mukova anofanira kuvharwa chete kana mwana achawira nehope murugare oga.

chaiwo tsika

Kuti mwana kurara zvakawanda, zvinokosha kuita zviito chete zuva nezuva. Izvi swimming manheru, uchiona cartoons, kuverenga nyaya, kutaura naamai kana baba pamusoro zuva, pamusoro nemaonero ake, uye zvichingodaro.

Izvi daily tsika dzinobatsira kuti pave dzakananga miitiro yomwana; ukapisa murwi ari hope panongopera mwana afuke pijama ake, uye sokusingaitiki meno ake. Vana vakawanda kukotsira nokukurumidza apo kumirira chinhu chakanaka uye zvinonakidza. Somuenzaniso, pamusoro neSvondo vabereki akavimbisa kuti kuderedza mwana zoo, ari café kana firimu - unogona kunyange maziso ako uye nezvezvandisina chiitiko ichi.

Vamwe vana nehope, kana amai zvishoma vachivata parutivi pake. Kana mwana anobvunza mai akagara naye usiku hwose, unogona kuita zvishoma Wandinyengedzerei: vanoti akatevera, apo Amai crow, brushes meno ake, urare chitoyi, uye anouya maminitsi anenge maviri. Muzviitiko zvakadaro, mwana kazhinji nehope pachavo.

Chimwe wemanomano (vana makore 1-3 okuberekwa) - inogona aiturikwa shure ramai vake Danga chinhu, zvakadai somunhu bathrobe. Nembudzana Uchanzwa pamberi mai vangu uye nehope murugare.

Chiizve unofanira kuyeuka?

Muropa mwana dzakazvimirira hope hakufaniri kuva zvakamuomera. Vakuru vanoda kushivirira uye nguva mune imwe nyaya yakaoma yakadai kuti accustom mwana hope aparadzane vabereki vavo. Tips vanachiremba:

• About neawa vasati vanorara nemwana hakudi kutamba panze mitambo, ruzha yaiti, mapurogiramu varaidzo.
• Rangarira zuva manheru tsika.
• Sleeping mwana zvinokosha kusika akanaka ezvinhu: hwomutambarakede metiresi uye mutsago, nyoro pijama uye mubhedha wakarukwa. The kamuri ndisati ndarara nani fefetedza.
• Akumbirwa nembudzana kusiya chiedza usiku kana mwenje kunobatanidzwa mukamuri.
• Taura nemwana wako, kana chiri chinhu vaitozonyepa muvanhu kuti seyi, edza kudzikama.
• Vabereki vanofanira kuramba yamunoti nezviito zvavo uye zvinodiwa.
• Nemwana unofanira kutaura wakadzikama uye nenzwi rakadzikama, pasina Gidheoni matauriro.
• Vabereki pachavo vanofanira kugadza muenzaniso kuvana, kwete kurara uye akaenda kunorara panguva imwe nguva.

Chinhu chikuru, havawani huta uye zvikuru ruzivo. mwana mumwe kukura kwavo zvinhu. Vamwe vana vari akarara murugare naye Danga mangwanani sezvo mwedzi zera mitanhatu, uye mumwe anodzidza kuti shanu chete kwemakore.

Vabereki vanogona kushandisa ruzivo shamwari, dzimwe mhuri, vanachiremba, uye unogona kuva pachako nzira yayo tichidzidzisa pachako akotsira mwana wake inoziva chidyiro chavatenzi vayo.