Vabereki wawakauraya kuuya mwana wenyu: Genius kana tupukanana?

Munguva ichangopfuura, pane tsika kuderedza vashandi vanokwanisa uye nokuwedzera basa tupukanana. Asi zvichida vanhu vashoma vanoziva kuti vabereki chokuita zvese kusemburwa, uye dambudziko iri.

Chokutanga, ndinoda kukupa mumwe wakanaka chaizvo muenzaniso woupenyu. Munguva ichangopfuura, ndakatasva kuchiteshi. Ndinogara. Hwandinoona achiburuka motokari imwe duku, utano uye vakapfeka zvakanaka mukadzi. Muruoko imwe iye chisimbiso mupurasitiki A4 pepa pamwe mufananidzo mwana uye, mhando sezvinoita chirwere. Mune imwe - bhegi dema pafudzi rake akashambidzika nedehwe hombodo mari.

Uye pano iduku plaintively, uye kumwe kunyange lazily anobvunza chigaro chinotakurwa vatakurwi kumubatsira nemari. Kazhinji, mureza Moscow Metro nyanzvi mupemhi. Ndakabva ndangofunga kuti kushoma vashanu vose akafanana vatambi vake, vaviri iyo ndakaona kwaye Diners ari café. Saka, kunyange pfungwa akasimuka: aigona munhu akasika kosi ari nyanzvi achipemha ari pevhu.

Uye chinonyanya kunakidza ndechokuti vakadzi ava vari kuchiteshi kupa mari. Kubva imwe pfungwa, ichi ndicho chakarurama akanaka - vanhu vanoda kubatsira. Pasinei dambudziko uye kusimudzira nhau zvose hype ubiquitous, vanhu vedu vanoda kubatsira uye kubatsira. Zvirokwazvo rwakafara Russian mweya.

Asi mumwe angabvunza, izvi zvose zvine chokuita nyaya yacho. Hazvina nyore. Kuti aite izvi, ngatitarisei rimwe divi nemari rubatsiro urwu. Munhu anopa mari mukadzi uyu - kubatsira, kana kufunga kuti zvinobatsira. Murume anokumbira uye anogamuchira mari chaizvoizvo kugamuchira nokusimbisa kuti zvinogona kuramba kugamuchira mari pasina kuwana nayo.

kureva Pano, zvinotevera kunoitika: munhu haana kubereka kana haripi chinhu chinokosha kuti tipone wako, muri kuti wabhadharwa. Uye zvakanaka, kana mari idzi chaizvoizvo uende Mabatirwo mwana munhu. Saka, zvinenge, huchazadzika chido chako chokubatsira. Chero zvazvingava, mukuru dambudziko iri haana kugadzirisa. Murume akaona kuti aigona kuita chinhu uye kuti wabhadharwa.

Uyewo, kana iwe mari munhu akadaro, vamwe vanhu kuzviona. Sezvaunoziva, muenzaniso dzakaipa chinotapuriranwa, uye munhu anogona kutanga kurishandisa. Uye kana iwe kunyatsotarisa zvaunazvo, uchaona kuti evanhu "achipemha" kunokudziridzwa kwazvo uye anotora dzakawanda.

Non-pachena muenzaniso ndiyo vechidiki kuti zvinopa vabereki refu zvakakwana. Vanotenga dzeserura uye mari zvidzidzo zvavo, nokuti ivo vari mubishi kuronga basa rakanaka, etc. Pacharo, izvi zvose zvakafanira kutarisira mwana wake. Asi pane imwe nguva: vazhinji vabereki musapa mwana (pasinei nezera zvayo) kuita chinhu nokuda rubatsiro uye rutsigiro nguva dzose anogamuchira kubva kuvabereki.

Zvose izvi chinhu asi sekurudziro vasiri-kugadzirwa. Pasi Kugadzirwa ndiwo muitiro kana munhu anopa (unobereka, anotengesa) chinhu chinokosha kune vamwe. Izvi zvinogona kuva chinhu chinangwa (akadai terevhizheni kana motokari), uye zvichida ane zvakakodzera basa. Asi chinofanira kuva zvinokosha, nokuti, sezvinoita ushe, vanhu exchanges riri zvakafanira kuti vapone. Kungava mari, uye zvichida kunyange dzinotsigira munhu panguva yakakodzera.

Saka, mukuru chikanganiso vabereki vakawanda - kuramba pfungwa mwana muduku, simba, uye havana kuziva kukwanisa kupa chinhu chinokosha kwavari. Nokutendeseka, hazvisi. Unogona kutarisa kunze. Ndinokuudzai chokwadi, uchawana kukatyamadzwa kwakanaka. Vana vaikwanisa. Kunyanya kana iwe uvape kuratidza. Uye kwokutanga muupenyu nani.

Somuenzaniso, wakaziva vose wenziyo Mozart akanyora yokutanga anoratidza muna 4 Makore! Muna 6 Makore, iye nemhuri yake akafamba zvose pamusoro Europe uye akaita pamberi royals. Zviya, mumwe anonakidza pfungwa: pasinei zvinobatsira vana vavo (Wolfgang aivawo hanzvadzi matarenda) uye vabereki vavo kuyeuka kuti vana vari - ndiko kutanga vose, vana vanofanira kuva chake uduku uye, chokwadi, vana kunonakidza uye frolic. Naizvozvo, anokudzwa uye zvakakomba muimbi Wolfgang kakawanda kuvhiringidzwa zvidzidzo ake kutamba katsi kana parinomhanya kuburikidza pamakamuri pamusoro ipwa yababa vake.

Uye Thomas Edison kare 10 makore Aifarira kwemakemikari uye vakasikwa yepasi ake rabhoritari rokutanga. Vanoda mari kuedza, Edison akava mutengesi mapepanhau uye zvihwitsi muchitima kwemakore 12. Kuti varege kutambisa nguva, akatambura makemikari rabhoritari panguva yayo dziripo motokari uye kuitwa kuedza muchitima. Panguva nemakore 15, ndakatenga pachiitiko muchina wokudhinda iri mukwende motokari kubudisa pepanhau ake, chakatengeswa kune vanhu. shasha Edison uye ake nesimba hunoshamisa anogona kunzi sezvo kadhi kuna mai vake, aimbova mudzidzisi wechikoro, uyo akaramba nedzidzo yake uye kudzidzisa pamba, mushure chikoro.

A anozivikanwa muzivi uye humanist remakore rechimakumi maviri, L. Ron Hubbard, uyo pachake vakatanga kudzidzisa dzimwe makore 17 uye mberi nezvidzidzo zvavo vanhu zvakadzama vaiona zvikuru nyaya dzidzo uye kurovedzwa, muhutungamiri ake kuvandudza upenyu "Nzira Mufaro" akaita yakarumbidza zvinotevera:

"Watch vana (kunyange zviduku). Teerera zvinotaurwa nevana vakuudza pamusoro hwavo. Kuvabvumira kuti akubatsire. Kana usingaiti izvi, vachafanira kudzvinyirira Kudira pfungwa yavo pabasa.

Mwana haagoni kurarama pasina rudo. Vana vakawanda vagadzirira kupa rudo wavo kudzoka. "

Zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti chero mwana kuipa uyo akadzidza kufamba uye kutaura, pamwe Chikurukuru anoda kubatsira. Edza kumupa tumabasa, zvino sei kushandisa navo. Zvingaoneka vachichenesa imba, achitora kunze marara, kugeza motokari, kana kunyange kupenda ruzhowa munyika. Main inoratidza sei kuita zvakanaka, uzviite kunyange nani pamwe chete, kuratidza uye achiudza sei uye zvauri kuita. Somugumisiro, Mwana wenyu achagona kuzviita pachako.

Uyewo, dzimwe nguva, vana vanoda kuita mupiro mhuri okugadzira zvinhu yake, asi havana chokwadi chokuti achava anokosha kwauri. Somuenzaniso, kana mwana anoda kutamba kana pendi. Uchaita kuti afare, kana ukamukumbira kukuratidzai kutamba mutsva. Kana kumuudza kuti hauna mifananidzo zvakakwana pamadziro vashongedze mukamuri, uye basa rake kwaizova kwazvo panzvimbo. Saka iwe kuwana kwete chete inofara uye nemano mwana, asi shamwari yakanaka. Uye zvakakosha, iwe tanga zvichikosha kuti mukuru dzevanhu unhu: nesimba basa, chido uye kukwanisa kubatsira boka kuti inotsigira nayo.