Sei kubvisa rudo?

Rudo ndiyo manzwiro akanaka kwazvo muupenyu hwedu hwehupenyu. Ndiye iye anotiponesa zuva rega rega, uye zvisinei kuti rudo rwei-kuvabereki, kumwana, kumhuka kana shamwari. Zvakanaka, kana iwe wakave wekunzwa uku, usakurumidza kufunga kuti ungabvisa sei rudo rusingadiwi, nokuti upenyu hunotidzidzisa zvakawanda, uye kunyange ruzivo rwakanyanya runorwadza runobatsira kuva akachenjera.

Sei kubvisa rudo? Uyu mubvunzo iwoyo avo vasina chokwadi chekudzoka kwemanzwiro evakasarudzwa avo vanobvunzwa, kana kuti vakatozokwanisa kudzidza kuti kunzwa uku kuchaunza iye kutambura chete. Rudo rusina kutaurwa kana kuti rwakarambidzwa runokuita kuti urege kurara usiku, uchitambudzwa nekurwadziwa kwemweya uye kurwadziwa, uye mukufamba kwemazuva uchirwadza uye wakazara mukati mako. Kunyanya kuora mwoyo, kuora mwoyo uye kushungurudzika mune zvemweya kunounza mubvunzo "sei kubvisa manzwiro e rudo asingagoni kuva nemagumo anofadza?". Kana iwe uine chokwadi chose kuti hapana tariro uye haigoni kuva, saka nyaya ino ichakubatsira iwe nemazano mashoma uye mazano.

Nzira yekukunda sei uye kuti ungabvisa sei rudo rusingadiwi? Kutanga, panzvimbo yekugara uye kufunga kuti ungabvisa rudo sei, edza kuwana nzvimbo mukati memwoyo weakasanangurwa. Yeuka kuti kudai rudo urwu ruchaparadzwa, nekukurumidza kana kuti gare gare richapera, uye humwe hutsva, hwakanaka uye hwemashiripiti huchauya kuzokutsiva, huchakupa mapapiro nekuita kuti utarise nyika nenzira itsva.

Saka, tanga kurwisa mwoyo wemusanangurwa wako kana wako wakasarudzwa. Dzidza tsika yemunhu waunoda, edza kuendeswa kune zvaanoda. Kunyange kana iwe usingabudiriri, ruzivo rutsva uye unyanzvi hazvizombopindi. Zvisinei, mukurwisana navo, edza kusasikirwa nemafungiro ako uye zvaunofarira. Kutendeukira kune unyanzvi we opera kana kudzidza kudzidzira pirouettes pa rink, usakanganwa nezvezvinofadza iwe pachako. Pakutanga, humwe chete uye humwe huchakwevera mudiwa wako kutanga uye mberi, uye kana iwe ukava wakafanana naye, hazvigone kuti iwe uchazombokwanisa kumufarira. Uye zvino mubvunzo "sei kubvisa rudo?" Ichava yakanyanya kukurumidza. Iva shamwari inofadza, kusangana neshamwari dzake, vafarire ivo neruzivo rwenyu, vave mweya wekambani. Zvichida iwe uchange uine mikana yose yokukunda shure rudo. Mukuwedzera, kana uchingowana shamwari itsva uye uchiziva chinhu chekunamatira kwako pedyo, iwe ungangokurumidza kuora mwoyo mukati maro.

Edza kuwana zvitsva zvitsva, sangana nevanhu vatsva. Tarisa-tarisa. Munharaunda kune vamwe vazhinji vamiririri vevasikana vakasiyana-siyana vanokodzera rudo rwenyu nekucherechedza. Tarisa iwe pachako. Sei kubvisa rudo? Zviri nyore, kuwira murudo nemumwe munhu. Zvisinei, munyaya iyi, edza kusaita nemanzwiro evamwe vanhu, uchiedza kuva neshanje nemumwe munhu ane mwoyo wako. Zvichida mumwe munhu ari pedyo newe akakodzera rudo rwako nemwoyo zvakanyanya kupfuura yekare.

Usafunga kuti pasina musanangurwa wako haugone kurarama zvakare. Nditende, hapana munhu akambofa nerudo rusingadiwi, uye kana akafa, kubva paupenzi.

Usarasikirwa nekuzvikudza kwako nekupira rudo. Usazvizvininipisa pamberi peumwe munhu, nokuti mushure mechinguva, rudo ruchaenda, uye kunzwa kwekunyadziswa kucharamba kuripo. Usavimba nomumwe munhu. Yeuka kuti kana iwe usingagoni kuongororwa, munhu akadaro haasi muhupenyu hwako. Uye nokukurumidza iwe unonzwisisa kuti haudi munhu akadaro, unokurumidza unogona kuzarura mwoyo wako nokuda kwekunzwa kwatsva, izvo, zvichida, zviri pedyo zvikuru uye unomirira chete chiratidzo chiduku pane iwe.

Usafunga kuti ungabvisa sei rudo. Zvakakosha kuzarura mwoyo wako nemweya kune mufaro uye mufaro! Rudo uye ude kudiwa!