Ndeapi mararamiro ewanano?

Mhando dzewanano dziripo munyika dzakasiyana hazvigadziri kuchinjwa. Sezvo mutemo, mune imwe nharaunda yemazuva ano inowanzo "kutonga" hukama pakati pemukadzi nemurume anoda kutanga mhuri, kutungamirira furazi pamwe chete nekurera vana vanogara. Mhemberero yekuroorana inogona kuva yepamutemo, apo avo vakaroorana vanowana gwaro rekunyora muhofisi yekunyora, uye chechi, umo kubatana kwevanhu vaviri kusingafungi pasina kuchengeta mutambo wechitendero.

Nhoroondo

Kune vanhu vose, maitiro avo ezvakaitika zvewanano anosangana nedzimwe tsika netsika dzenyika. Mhedziso yemhuri mumazuva eEkare yeRoma yaibatanidza nechinhu chitsvene, uye kuroorana kwaive iko kwaiva rudzi rwechibvumirano chepamutemo pakati pevanhu vaviri, uye mukadzi aiwanzoita chisarudzo pamusoro pewanano, achifunga kuda kwevabereki vake.

Panguva iyoyo, mitambo yakasiyana-siyana yechitendero yakashandiswa kusunga kubatana, iyo yaiva mufananidzo wechato chechiKristu. Kune rumwe rutivi, muumambo hweRoma , kuroorwa kwekuroorana kwakanga kusingogumiri pamitambo, uye vakuru vakuru vakaita mapepa emutemo, maererano nevana vana vaizogona kugara nhaka yevabereki vavo.

Kunyange mushure mokunge kupararira kwechiKristu muByzantium, kusvika muzana remakore rechigumi nerimwe, kwaiva nemhando mbiri dzewanano - chichato muchechi uye inogara yakagadzikana. Uye kugara kwekugara kwevakadzi vakasununguka nevarume kwaive kwakaenzana nekusikwa kwemhuri. Kunyange kunze kwechechi, tsika yacho yakanzi yakakodzera, kana yakatora kwemakore, izvi zvinogona kusimbiswa nezvapupu zvakasiyana-siyana, uye zvinyorwa zvaivepo kuti murume akagamuchira dowry kubva kuvabereki vemudzimai wake. Kubva kubva muzana remakore reXI, muchato muByzantine Empire ndiyo chete nzira yekuroorana.

Modernity

Mazuva ano, maitiro ezvinyorwa zvemhuri uye zvewanano zviri kuitika munguva yakapfuura, vazhinji vakaroorana muEurope uye nyika dzezvenzvimbo dzeSoviet-post hadzisi kubvumirana neukama hwavo zvachose, kana kuti dzinongopedzeredzwa mhemberero yehurumende yekupenda muhofisi yekunyora. Kubatana nekubata mhemberero yechitendero iye zvino isisina mvumo yepamutemo, saka vaviri vakaroorana vakaronga pamwe pamwe chete uye kuwana kodzero yekugara nhaka yekwawakaroorana naye, unofanira kunyora uhu hukama hwepamutemo. Zvisinei, mhando itsva yemibatanidzwa pakati pemurume nemudzimai yakaonekwa, kusanganisira yakazaruka, yenguva duku, muenzi, musina kukwana uye inonyengera.

Saka, dzimwe mhuri kunyange mushure mekugadzwa kwepamutemo "hutsika" hwehukama hunosarudza kuzvibata kune umwe neumwe sevashanyi. Vanorarama muzvivako zvakasiyana-siyana, musabatanidzwa mujowa-masimiro ekufambisa uye munosangana chete kwevhiki kana kamwe kamwe pamwedzi. Bhurai muchato unopa chibvumirano chekuti mumwe nomumwe wevakaroorana anogona, kana achidikanwa, atungamirire hupenyu hwepabonde kune rumwe rutivi, uye mufambiro wakadaro haugoni kufungidzirwa semhirizhonga.

Mumakumi emakore achangopfuura, mararamiro asina kujairika emuchato akabuda, kusanganisira kubatana pakati pevanhukadzi zvepabonde nemhuri yakanyorwa mushure mekufa kweumwe wevakaroorana. Mune dzimwe nyika, maitiro akadaro ekunyorwa kwepamutemo kwehukama hunoonekwa sehutano, kunyange zvakadaro munyika dzakawanda dzenyika imwechete dzepabonde dzinoonekwa semutemo uye hadzina mutemo wemutemo.

Kunyorwa kwemashure kunonyanya kuitika kune mamiriro ezvinhu apo mumwe wevachazoroorana achangoerekana afa pamberi pemuchato. Izvi zvinodikanwa kune wechipiri sangano, uyo anogamuchira chimiro chomunhu chirikadzi uye anogona kuvimba nezvose zvikwereti kana zvikwereti zvichibva mumutemo, kunze kwekodzero yekugara nhaka yevakafa. Mhando dzose dzewanano, pasinei nekusiyana kwavo, dzinopa kugadzirirwa kwemhuri yekusununguka kwekusununguka uye kubvumirana kwavo kubatana neimwe "hutano hwevanhu".