Mutauro muviri: Nzira izvi zvinogona kuva zvakaoma tenzi, asi kuedza vacharipa

Sezvo kamwe akati gungwa muroyi Ursula (rimwechetero kubva "The Little Mermaid"): "Usarerutsa kukosha mutauro muviri." Uye akanga zvachose zvakanaka.

Vamwe emazano okunyengera Somuenzaniso, imwe risingakanganwiki kunyemwerera, dzidza uye kushandisa ose zuva riri nyore. Vamwe vanogona kukonzera matambudziko kudzidza uye kunoda zvimwe unyanzvi. Kunyange zvakadaro, vanogona kuva huru uye dzimwe nguva kunyange anosarudza ukoshi.

Heano sere mutauro muviri mitoo kuti havasi nyore nounyanzvi, asi zvaunoita vacharipa.

"Mirroring" ari interlocutor

"Magirazi" munhu uyo nemi kutaura - vadzokorora chaanoita. Movement, muviri chinzvimbo. Hazvisi zvakaoma, kunyanya nemhaka kana munhu "mirroring" kuti overdo nayo, wacho angafunga kuti anyengerwa kana vanonyombwa naye.

Ukuwo, zvakarurama akaurayiwa Wandinyengedzerei zvinoita nyore kukunda.

chivimbo gait

Pasinei nokuti munhu wose anofunga kuti iye anofamba nechivimbo, izvi handizvo zvinoitika nguva dzose. Vamwe vane usimbe gait uye slouch, vamwe vanotarira kusagadzikana yakavharwa.

Uye shure zvakaoma zvikuru kutevera: Inzwi kuti vanonzwa kurekodha ino chete uye nguva imwe neimwe unonetseka kana zviri iwe. Asi kana ukaedza kugadzirisa dambudziko, vamwe vachatonga uve munhu chivimbo uye kutsunga.

Ziso kuonana: zvose pameso enyu

Kune vanhu vanowana zvakaoma kuramba ziso kuonana, uye kunyange zvakawanda kudaro kutanga ngaatarire muziso. Kwavari, zviri kujairika uye kugadzikana. Asi chokwadi, zvinobatsira kukurukura uye ane zvakawanda kupfuura "run" kana maonero maziso chikaunyana nokusingaperi.

Leyl Laundes mubhuku "How kutaura nomunhu pamusoro chinhu," rinokurudzira fungidzira kuti maziso ako glued kuti interlocutor ake zvishoma Sticky. Over nguva iwe vajaire uye kumisa kuchengeta uye kuzvidzora, uye unyanzvi hwako kuchavandudzika.

rakavhurika mamiriro

achiziva kwete zvokuita nemaoko enyu, vanhu Tuck navo muhomwe kana akayambuka pachipfuva chake, saka insulated kubva interlocutor. Asi zvakakwana zvinoita kuti ufunge kuti uri kuvanza chinhu. Open mamiriro ane inozviitira zvakawanda nokusika mamiriro chivimbo.

Calm, asi wakadzikama

Fidgeting Kazhinji dzinoratidzwa kuvimbika vanhu kana vaya vanotya. Kana havadi interlocutors dzavo.

Zvisinei, mukuedza kudzikama uye mubatirire chaizvoizvo nyore overdo uye haifambi zvachose. Asi nzvimbo dzakadaro havatariri vagadzikana uye hapana nani pane "kuvhima".

Kuwana nepakati - kuti ndiyo yakanakisisa yokupedza mumamiriro ezvinhu.

mamiriro

Vabereki vaibudirira kurudyi, akagara achingotukwa nokuda hunched yenyu shure. Simbe haibati Simbe haibati, asi "isaparara" pachigaro Somuenzaniso, muna uchibvunzurudzwa - chiratidzo nokusaremekedza. Panguva iyoyowo kumeso mamiriro kunoonekwa sechiratidzo yenjere, chivimbo uye kuvimbana. Izvi anoshanda kwete chete panguva pamutemo misangano.

Gara kubuda tsika hakusi nyore, asi zviripo basa.

kugwinha maoko

"Usimbe kugwinha maoko" - yakaipisisa kugwinha maoko, kupfuura sembura nemigumisiro yose. Inoita munhu aone chete simba. Kukwazisana vanofanira yakachengeteka usvinudze meso uye yakafara achinyemwerera. Zvadaro hunoshanda.

Sezvineiwo, pane iyiwo zvakafanira kuziva mwero, nokuti kugwinha maoko zvakare wakasimba anoonekwa sezvo yaiparadza.

slowdown

Kana munhu huta, anotanga kuenda makasimba uye kutaura zvakasimba. Asi namazvo uye anononoka zviito kubereka nani zvikuru pfungwa. Man achitaura yakafanorongwa, anoziva zvaari kutaura - pfungwa dzakadaro dzinogona kurondwa mupfungwa dzedu.

Kana uchinzwa sokuti uri vava "chikamu", kumisa, tora befu uye chengeta vadekara sezvinobvira. Saka muchanzwisisa kutarira somunhu nomazvo munhu, kwete zuro wacho nyoro mudzidzi.