How kugadzirira mwana wako kuti kukireshi? "Kwete," chemaneka uye kushushikana

Kubvuma kuti kukireshi - rimwe zviitiko kukosha muupenyu achiri pfupi mwana wako. Vazhinji, kunyange mwana kudzifarira zvakaoma kuchinja neitsva ezvinhu. Ndokusaka vabereki vanofanira kutora hanya sei kugadzirira mwana wako kuti kukireshi. Yeuka kuti okutanga mavhiki mashoma achifamba mumunda zvakadaro musoro kuti mwana - Chokwadi kekutanga anoona kunze musha wake, anotanga kuvaka evanhu ukama, kutaura munhu, kunze mhuri uye shamwari. Uye vabereki vari danho kubva haina kubva pazuva rokuzvarwa, kazhinji haana pedyo.

Dzidzo kubvisa zuva nezuva

Edza kubvunza pachine zvinotaurwa zuva nezuva unoshanda akasarudza kukireshi, uye zvishoma nezvishoma, achiri mumba nemwana, kudzidzisa kwaari. Chokutanga, kudzidzisa kuti vamuke mangwanani, ita maekisesaizi uye kudya (mu kindergartens vakawanda zvokudya zvemangwanani pa 8:30 - 9:00 am). Kubva 9 kusvika 10 vanozvarwa kuroorana, asi pamwe hafu rechi11 achifamba panze kuti awa rimwe. The matafura akafukidzwa maawa 12 kuti kuzodya, pashure iyo (kusvika anenge 3 maawa zuva) vanofanira kutevedzera hope. Kana mwana wenyu haasi wajaira masikati hope, kune zvinofanira zvishoma nezvishoma - pakutanga chete akarara chinyararire, uchiona cartoons, verenga, etc. Nokufamba kwenguva, mukuru kumbomira ichava zvikuru kuramba. Pashure uchimuka, ipai mwana wako chiedza tudyo. Time kubvira 4 kusvika 5 pm unogona yaungapedzera zvidzidzo zvakare. Pana 5 o'clock, edza kupa mwana chisvusvuro, uye ipapo vaviri maawa, unogona kubuda.

Self-basa

Zvakakosha zvikuru sei kugadzirira mwana kuti kukireshi, kumudzidzisa dzinokosha unyanzvi nokuzvidzora basa. nekuti Vaperekedzi panyama haagoni arambe zvose. Vari kukireshi vana vanofanira kuita kuenda kuchimbuzi kana potty, kurura uye mapfekero, kushandiswa Forogo, Banga Nechipunu uye napkins, kunwa mukombe, Kukwesha mazino, etc. moms ruzivo uyo akabvunza mubvunzo sei kugadzirira mwana wako kukireshi, vanoti kuti zvakakosha kufunga hembe mwana. Somuenzaniso, Zvinokurudzirwa kusarudza blouses pamusoro mabhatani, netirauzi vane kwakavharwa nenyama zvisungo neshangu - Velcro. Ivo pipsqueak kubata anomhanya zvikuru, uye Chikurukuru - pachake.

nokuomesa

Kusvika kukireshi, mwana anosarudzwa kubva "guurwa" uye akarwiswa nemavhairasi zhinji uye utachiona. Ndicho danho rinokosha sei kugadzirira mwana kuti kukireshi, anoomesa. Long famba, mhepo dzokugezera uye kupukutwa ane nyorova jira - ichi zvose kunosimbisa muviri wemwana. Kwete papera pane imwe mwedzi asati kupinda kukireshi vanofanira kuita kunobaisa zvose.

Psychological gadziriro

Dzidzisai mwana wenyu kuti nomutsa kukumbira matoyi uye kugoverana navo. Gadzira mufananidzo akanaka mwana edzidzo masangano: mwana anoona kukireshi zvakakwana uyewo vabereki vake. Saka kana iwe uri kufara nechisarudzo dzavo, kutya, uye zvichingodaro, mbudzana, zvakare, achanzwa manzwiro aya. Haufaniri nhema mwana wako, asi havafaniri uye kutyisidzira kwaari, "Iwe hausi kuteerera, enda kukireshi!". Funga nezvazvo sezvo kuterama inodiwa. Chinhu chikuru - kuratidza mwana wako mafungiro avo noushamwari uye kugamuchira kuti vadzidzisi, vanamukoti uye mwana. Paavhareji, kuti kwadzakabva kuvana, zvakanaka akagadzirira kukireshi, asingafariri kupfuura 1-2 mavhiki. Uye vana vakawanda muzhizha havana kunyange kufunga kukireshi sei kuti kure naye uye kugara pamba - saka nokukurumidza akava kufarira ichi chiduku nyika.