Tichabvuma here mutauro wekutungamira mukukurukurirana? Kusiyana kwepfungwa dzemaonero

Mune mabasa epamba emagariro echiprologist akazvipira kusayenzi yekukurukurirana, sekutonga, pane nguva dzose chiratidzo chekusagamuchirwa kwekushandisa mutauriri wevanokurudzira izvo zvinokonzera kusagadzikana kwekutaura kune mutauriri. Ngatitarisei zvakanyatsooneka kuti inzwi remutidziri nderei, uye sei kusinganzwisisi chirevo pamusoro pekusagamuchirwa kwekushandiswa kwayo.

Nhoroondo yeChirungu

Izwi rokuti "mutungamiri" rakauya kwatiri kubva kumaperembudzi ekare, kubva kare kare maGreek. Iri zita rinotaurwa nemutetemeri Homer munhetembo yake yekare pamusoro pekudzungaira kwaOdysseus. Apo gamba guru rakakwira kundorwa naTroy, akarayira shamwari yake Mentor kutarisira mwanakomana wake Telemachus uye kumurayiridza. Mudzidzisi aishingaira kuita mabasa ake. Akadzidzisa Telemachus, akamudzivirira kubva kuupenzi, akapa zano rakanaka. Kusvikira ikozvino, zita rokuti Mentor rakaburuka sezita rakakurumbira, zvinoreva mudzidzisi, mutungamiri, mumwe munhu ane huchenjeri uye anoita zvakanyatsonaka.

Zvinoreva izwi rokuti "mutungamiri" muRussia upenyu hwezuva nezuva

Muchirevo cheRussia, murangariri anonyanya kufanana nemudzidzisi ane utsinye anoratidza hukuru hwake pamusoro pevadzidzi, nokudaro achitendeukira kune ivo nekuzvikudza.

Kana mutauriri wacho asingatombovi nechivimbo mukururama kwake uye achitaurirana nezwi risingaregi, asingabvumiri kukakavara, vanoti anoti akatora "mutauriri wekutaura." Kutaurirana nenzira iyi, mutungamiri anoratidza chivimbo chake chokuti kutonga kwake hakugone kusakarurama, haapi kupa kodzero yekuvapo kwechinangwa chekusiyanisa kubva kune zvake.

Muzvinyorwa zveRussia, zvose zvigadzirwa uye nesayenzi, shoko rokuti "kurairidza inzwi" rinoshandiswa kubva pane zvakaipa pane maonero, izwi iri rinogara rine ironic tinge. Mentor inoratidzika somurume anozvivimba, haasi kuremekedza avo vanotaura navo, achibvumira manzwiro asina kunaka ekuzvikudza kune vamwe.

Chikonzero nei zvisingabvumirwi kushandisa izwi rekutungamira mukukurukurirana

Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinopa mazano munzira dzose kuti dzirege kudzikurira kune vamwe. Ndiani angatora inzwi rekudzidzisa:

• Vabereki mukukurukurirana nemwana;
• Mudzidzisi ari kukurukurirana nemudzidzi;
• Mutungamiriri maererano nevakuru;
• Munhu anobudirira kune vamwe;
• Mutungamiriri muboka rake.

Zvisinei, munhu wese anoda kuzvinzwa kukosha, munhu wese anofara kana achibatwa nekuremekedza uye tsitsi. Zvinonzwisisika, muromo uye kunyengera kwehukuru hwehurukuro inogona kungoita kuti vateereri vake vasiye. Inzwi reMentor rinogona kuderedza zvakanyanya kuzvidzora kwevaya vanoshandiswa nguva dzose, kusagadzirisa migumisiro yekutaura kwakanakisisa. Anokonzera kuvenga, kutsamwa, chido chokutsiva.

Mukutaurirana, kutaura kwakanyanyisa uye inzwi rekurudziro inzira yakananga kune dambudziko rezvematongerwo enyika. Iyo yekupedzisira ingangodaro inokonzera hondo.

Mentor-mentor

Zvisinei, chete pfungwa yedu ye "muongorori" ane ruvara rwakashata, kunyange zvazvo hero yeHomer yaiva mudzidzisi akachenjera uye ane hanya. Nokudaro, muEurope muMiddle Ages shoko iri rairemekedzwa nevadzidzisi nevadzidzisi.

Nhasi shoko rokuti "mutungamiri" rinowedzera kushandiswa kureva mudzidzisi anodzidza. Kutaura mumabhuku esayenzi kunotsanangurwa senzira yekukurukura nevana vane zvipo, senzira yekutsvaga ruzivo uye ruzivo. Muchiitiko chino mazano anowirirana nekupa mazano uye anosanganisira mhinduro pakati pemudzidzisi nemudzidzi. Iyi nzira yekukurukurirana haisanganisi chete kuendesa ruzivo, asiwo kutsigira, uye kukurudzira, uye kuziviswa kwezvingaita zvevadzidzi.

Mentor muongorori - uyu mubatsiri anonyatsoteerera, paanenge akasimba zvakakwana uye achikumbira, haaiti mvumo, kutaura nokutendeseka pamusoro pemigumisiro yebasa, kunyange kana vasina kunaka. Iyi nzira yekukurukurirana pakati pemudzidzisi nemudzidzi ane ruzivo inoonekwa seinobudirira zvikuru, sezvo inobatsira kuti vekupedzisira vaungane uye vanyatsoratidzira zvavanogona.