Sei adzorere sevasingaoni kana ivo kutsvoda?

Ataurazve anonzwa mubvunzo sei nokutsvoda avhara maziso enyu kana kutsvodana kana nei kutendeuka sevasingaoni?

Mubvunzo haisi itsva, asi mhinduro yakajeka kunodokuva kusingabviri kuwana, hongu, uye maziso avo apo kutsvodana hachisi zvose. Imwe dzidziso sei pedyo maziso avo kana kutsvodana - zviri muitiro kana vasiri dzepanguva. Zvimwe zviri nameso yakavharwa kutsvoda chinonhuwira uye mupfungwa. Vamwe vanhu havatendi vane kodzero maziso ako kana kutsvodana, nekuti vanofanira kuongorora mamiriro ezvinhu akapoteredza, kunyange panguva nokutsvoda. marongero iyi kakawanda muna vanhu vane chinoshingaira mararamiro, zvinoisa yepamusoro zvinoda zvose zvoupenyu uye zvazvinokonzera, uyewo vamwe vanhu uye ini pachangu. Chimwe chikamu vanhu vanosarudza kuti kupiwa zvakakwana pachake manzwiro, zvakaitika pasi pesimba manzwiro, saka vanosarudza kuti kuvhara maziso avo apo kutsvodana. Dzimwe nguva mumwe chete munhu mumamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana anotsvoda rakavhurika, uye dzimwe nguva nameso ake akavharwa.

Saka, pashure zvose, nei, kana kutsvodana sevasingaoni?

Izvi zvinogona kutsanangurwa maererano physiology. Kissing pedyo meso enyu nokuti uropi anopa murayiro uyu kubvisa zviwane kuti kudzivirira kuwana nemanzwiro akanaka kubva nokutsvoda. In vasiri nemashoko, chinonyanya kushanda muviri womunhu, ndiwo kukwanisa vaberekane uye kutsvoda zvinotangira uye zvinoita kuti ichi. Naizvozvo, uropi anopa murayiro patsanura kubva chokwadi. Panguva iyoyo munguva nyama kutsvodana, pane kwakaderera kunzwa, pamwe nokuda kwechikonzero ichochi.

Achitaura unyanzvi.

Singapore muzvinafundo akaedza kuzoumba mhinduro yomubvunzo - sei, kana kutsvodana sevasingaoni? Maererano naye, nokuti ichi pane zvikonzero zvitatu. Mumwe wavo, mumashoko ake, icho chinhu nomuzvarirwo kuratidzwa. Nomuzvarirwo kukotsira kutura, kudzivirira pfungwa dzevanhu kubva pachisara Manzwiro. Izvi imhaka yokuti panguva ino uropi kupfuura kutsinga dzinouya zadzisa. Kubvisa kana kuti zviite muviri wedu anongozvarwa anoshandisa ziso kuvhara. Uyewo pfungwa kuti isu kuvhara maziso edu, nekuti havadi kuona chiso zvakamoniwa shamwari nokuti yayo-dimensional matatu mufananidzo haana kunzwisisa panguva imwe vaneshungu nokusveta. Tinogona kuona munhu blurry, kwete nguva dzose zvinofadza kuverenga, shamwari contours chiso uye anongozvarwa maziso angu kuitira kuti izvi zvisaitike. Munogonawo, maererano purofesa, nei, kana kutsvodana pedyo maziso - iri banal kwevanhu nomwero. Kutsinzina maziso ake panguva nokutsvoda, hatidi wakaisa mudiwa wako akamanikana ezvinhu, regai kumanikidza kuti kudzora kuratidzwa manzwiro ake pamusoro zvaanoita chiso chake.

Abvunzwa sei, kana kutsvodana, maziso avo ravira. Mumwe nomumwe wedu formulates nzira yake. Asi, pakutanga, kutaura kutsvodana, tinofunga pamusoro dzorudo uye utere. Vanachiremba dzinorumbidza kwete chete kazhinji kutsvoda aine nomumwe asiwo kusora kwaari panguva nokutsvoda, sezvo zvakanga Saka, zvinokwanisika, kubudikidza maitiro ake, kudzidza zvakawanda nezvake. Panguva iyoyowo, vanachiremba vanoomerera pakuti kutsvoda wakavhara maziso, sezvo mutemo, kudanana uye chinji hunhu. Kuti muitiro patsanura zvachose chokwadi, Akatapa munyika manzwiro uye manzwiro, pasina kufunga nezveremangwana. Maererano nenhamba, kutsvoda avo, pasina kutsinzina maziso ake, vashoma, uye, kureva, chete 10%. Vanachiremba simba vanhu vakadaro zvinotevera unhu: akavimbika uye authoritarianism, nekuti vanogona nguva dzose uye mumamiriro ezvinhu ose kudzora mamiriro, uye saka kuti sei kuchangotanga kuchinja kwake.

Mashoko kuisa uye mumwe nomumwe wavo, kusvika nharo. Kunokonzeresa chimwe chinhu: kutsvoda kwatiri kunokosha kufanana kudya kana kufema. Unoda zvakawanda, uye kazhinji kutsvodana, sezvo ndiro simba rwokuzvarwa Anti-depressant.