How kurova usimbe? Tarisa pamudzi dambudziko

Usimbe - a mufashoni dzezvakaipa. Mumwe kana mamwe kukurumbire anoshinga kutaura, kuti, zvakanaka, ndingadai hwapedza (the) kwazvo, kana asina usimbe. Izvozvo kunzwisiswa kuti kukwanisa munhu yakavigwa hombe, asi kwete chinozoiswa, nokuti murume haasi kuedza. Kazhinji mhando iyi coquetry. A tarenda - chinhu nharo. Asi ngatirege omerera mano uye anozodzidza wokuti "sei kurova usimbe?"

Kazhinji, zvinokosha kusiyanisa usimbe uye kuneta. Kana uri kushanda (kudzidza) kwemaawa anopfuura 8 pazuva, asi aitya kuti haugoni kushanda maawa 10-12, iwe - vanokwanisa murwere chiremba ane chirwere che "utadze" uye kwete usimbe. Saka unofanira pakarepo akatema chikamu vaverengi uye zano kuti vatsvake kubatsirwa chiremba. Hazvina maturo kupindura mubvunzo "How kurova usimbe?" Kana munhu akasatenda zvinodiwa muviri uye psyche.

Kana musingadi kushanda uye havagoni kuunza pachangu kuita zvakakodzera chinhu, zviri imwe nyaya. Uye mabhuku maviri vanofanira kusiyanisa zvokuongorora kuti "usimbe." Mune imwe nyaya, unenge mhosva usimbe kumativi, uye imi, pfungwa, akanaka pfungwa uye saka kurarama. Torai zano - tsanangudzo vamwe yakadaro inogona zvakanaka kuteerera. Izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe unoda kushandisa, uye murege ngaateme pamwechete inotarisirwa mugumisiro. Saka zvinokwanisika kutiza, usununguke zvako uye mberi. Asi nyaya wechipiri kunakidza nekuda zvousimbe Uri vaipomera pachako. Chimbofunga mamiriro ezvinhu zvizere.

Kazhinji sei kurova usimbe, vanhu vanofunga pashure vanotambura zvakakomba - ongororo, izvo vakaadzivira, ukama yakawira voga nokuda passivity mumwe vadiwa, kurasikirwa mari mumabhizimisi. Uye kana munhu afunga kuti chokwadi kuti unofanira kukunda usimbe kuita zvakawanda.

Unofanira kutanga kurwa ane kuongorora kana unoda zvinangwa iwe waiti zvechokwadi. Huru dambudziko nokukurudzirwa kunobva pakuti "usimbe" munhu kubva pauduku zvavakatemerwa "chinangwa chakanaka", uye iye chete anogara "fananei." Pamwe unofanira kufara haisi basa repamusoro muhofisi nokutsvakurudza microparticles? Murume haasi shoroma, asi mudzidzisi nyore ari rudo mabhuku? Kwete motokari itsva, uye mwana wechitatu mumba?

tsika vechokwadi kazhinji isu poya. Funga, kana iwe akakunda rotari, waizoitei. Simply kushandisa mari anofinha. Tora kodzero zvinangwa kwemaawa anoverengeka. Zviri nani kuti mubve nenzanga, kutora kufarira mimhanzi yako uende kufunga zvakasikwa. Musafunga kuti zvichaita kuudza vamwe chinangwa chako. zvinangwa Other vanhu regai simba kwavari unenge vakatongerwa upenyu-refu rokuremekedza ane bummer, hakusi zvinokudzwa.

Kana chinangwa chako uye kukurira usimbe zvikasashanda, edza kuongorora zviri kurega iwe. basa iri kazhinji kushayikwa mashoko. Haudi kuita pavaidira, uye hapana kushandisa simba kuti tipedze tsitsi - kuti hapana akanga atora. Saka, tinofanira kutsvaka unhu ruzivo. Wangova rondedzero zvakaitika vamwe vanhu, haufaniri kupedza nguva iri nokugadzirwa bhasikoro uye unogona kutanga here dzinonakidza uye zvinokurudzira basa.

Usimbe ndihwo yakazonyorwa muchimiro mwoyo. Muchiitiko chino, munhu anofunga kuti nguva yake yakapfuura, haazombofi kuhwina makwikwi, usambofa kutora nzvimbo yaakanga sechinokosha nekuti haana masimba. Kana - nyaya yako, I yemutemberi kuverenga bhuku rakanyorwa Jeff Colvin "The tarenda pa chinhu." It anofuridzira kushanda kwake ndeechokwadi zvinhu zvinoratidza kuti chokuziva kugona - nayo polumif. A hunoshamisa zvechokwadi vanhu vabudirire tichiregeredza rinokosha basa, izvo munyori anodana "tsika nemaune."

Kana muchida kuchinja chimwe hwake, wagadzirira kubvunza mibvunzo uye kutsvaka mhinduro - zvinoreva nyaya yako haisi chakaoma, uye nokufamba kwenguva uchava chinhu simba vamwe nyaya "How kurova usimbe?".