Chii chinonzi kuroorwa kwehurumende?

Pfungwa yekuroorana ichangobva kurasikirwa yakakosha. Akabatwa nekuzvidzwa uye, pane imwe nguva, asingatarisiri. Ndeipi kuroorana kwehurumende, zvino unoziva vashomanana. Vakawanda vanovhiringidza pfungwa iyi nekunyorwa kwepamutemo kwehukama. Zvisinei, izvi hazvisi zvechokwadi.

Mhirizhonga yevamwe vanhu inogara pamwe chete murume uye mukadzi anotungamirira imba yakafanana. Ichokwadi, ivo havasi murume nemudzimai. Munharaunda yevanhu vese vanonzi "yakaipa" izwi "cohabitants".

Kwete kare kare, michato yakadai yaishorwa uye inoonekwa sechinyadzisa kune avo vaviri. Mazuva ano, vechidiki vanofunga kuti ivo vanogara. Maererano nehuwandu, humwe hwegumi hwekuroorana huri hurumende uye gore rimwe nerimwe nhamba yavo iri kukura.

Kazhinji kacho, vatangi vehukama hwakadaro varume. Kusiyana nevakadzi, vanoramba vachizvinzwa vakasununguka uye vanozvimirira.

Ndeipi kuroorwa kwehurumende kune mukadzi? Chero yehutano hwakanaka pamwoyo unoda muchinda, jira chena, chindori chendarama uye rwendo rwemuchato. Kune vakadzi vakawanda kuva mudzimai akakodzera kunokosha zvikuru. Zvisinei, nekuona kusakwana kwakakwana kwechido chemuviri kune munhu anodikanwa, bvumirana nehupenyu huri pamwe chete uye pasina simbi mupasipoti.

Imwe yezvinetso zvakakosha mumhirizhonga yehurumende ndiko kuberekwa kwemwana. Muchiitiko ichi, vakadzi vanotya ramangwana ravo uye vanomanikidzwa kuisa zvirongwa zvekupedzisira: kana kuroorana, kana kuguma kwehukama. Pasi peMhuri Code, vabereki vevana vakaberekerwa muwanano vanongova murume nemukadzi. Zvimwe zvisingaiti, mukadzi wacho achafanirwa kuratidzira paternity. Mukuwedzera, angaramba kubvuma mukomana wake sebaba vomwana wake uye kunyange kuvadzivisa kuti vaone. Muchiitiko ichi, zvichava zvakaoma kuti murume aratidze kodzero dzake kumwana, sezvo DNA kuongororwa kune vana inogona kuitwa chete nemvumo yaamai. Nokudaro, vose murume nemukadzi, vasati vavaka ukama, zvinokosha kuziva kuti mararamiro ehurumende ndeapi uye zvinoguma nei.

Mukushamwaridzana kwekusununguka kune mamwe mabhesi. Izvo zvakanaka kune vechidiki vaduku vasina nguva yeku "kusimuka", kuwana mari nezvimwe zvakadaro. Vane mukana wekudzidza kurarama pamwe chete, kudzidza mumwe nemumwe, kunzwisisa kana vakagadzirira imba chaiye. Kana zvikasakundikana, vechidiki vanogona kupararira nokukurumidza uye pasina mitemo isingakoshi.

Sezvo mutemo, chido chakasimba uye rudo hazvikwanisi kumira muedzo wehupenyu uye kuzvitarisira. Manzwiro apfuura, uye kamwe kana munhu waunoda haafadzi uye anotoshungurudza. Uye hapana hukama kana huro hwemhuri hunodiwa zvachose . Kugadzirisa zvinhu zvinokosha uye zvinangwa muupenyu zvichabatsira kudzivisa zvikanganiso zvakadaro.

Kana vanhu vachivimba nemanzwiro avo uye, mushure mokugara pamwe chete kwechinguva, musazonyengedzana, saka mumwe haafaniri kunonoka nekunyorwa kwepamutemo kwehukama. Kubva pane maonero epamutemo, inopa mikana yakawanda kana mukarambana:

• Zvose zvakaparadzaniswa nehafu (pasinei nehuwandu hwenheyo yevakaroorana), kunze kwekuti chibvumirano chekuroorana kana chibvumirano chekupa chimwe chinhu chakapedzwa ;
• Vakaroorana vane kodzero yokuchengetedza kana vachirwara;
• Kana mwana akaberekwa mumuchato, uyo waanogara naye mushure mekurambana ane kodzero yokutsigirwa mwana kumwana mumwe nomumwe.

Sezvo wakadzidza kuti kuroorana kwevanhu, munhu wese ane kodzero yekusarudza nzira ipi yekusarudza. Chero zvazvingava, hazvizove zvisingashamisi kuti vadzoserwezve uye kugumisa chibvumirano. Mitemo yemazuva ano inobvumira kubhadhara kwemhuri pasina kunyora mari. Muchiitiko ichi, kodzero dzose uye zvinotarisirwa zvemapato zvinorayirwa muchibvumirano, icho chinofanirwa kusimbiswa neanotari. Pane zvakatemerwa mitemo yose iyo mhuri ichagara nayo, mamiriro ekurambana uye kupatsanurwa kwepfuma inotsanangurwa, pamwe chete nemabasa achazopiwa kune vakaroorana kana vakaberekwa mwana.